Hormones going crazy!
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i don't see much problems either, find something the both you can do outside your house, be around other people.
I went back and read your past posts. It looks like you haven't been on here much in quite a while, but back in 2007 you were writing a lot and you said you were 14. So I guess that makes you 16 now.
What you want to do will be e-x-t-r-e-m-e-l-y difficult, but definitely worth trying.
Originally Posted By: moondawg
Every few days, she hangs out at my house, and we always end up doing things. I would end up fingering her and getting a handjob.
I see two things here. First, am I right in assuming that just about the only thing you two haven't done yet is actual intercourse? It sounds like she has already seen your erect penis, touched it, and made you ejaculate. Am I right? And you've seen all her womanhood parts, in all its sexually excited wetness, and you too have discovered how to give her an orgasm with your fingers. Am I right again?
The problem is that the two of you have too much PRIVACY at YOUR HOUSE! Bodies our age want so badly to fuck (I'm 16 too, so I know). Someone once told me that "a hard dick has no conscience". Biologically, remember that your body won't be satsified until it has deposited enough semen enough times to make the female PREGNANT. That is the intent of your "hormones". And you are right in worrying about breaking up if you start having sex already. Your hormones really don't care whether or not you "LIKE" the female. All they care about is if you have the opportunity to "DO" the female so it can make the female pregnant!
Tonight, we started to talk and agreed we need to stop doing it so often. We've only been dating two months, and we both fear if our relationship gets to be all physical, we'll drift apart and break up. We definitely do not want this, but our hormones say otherwise.
I bet you either started to talk right away, while you both still had your clothes on and you didn't even have an erection yet, or you talked AFTER both of you had had your orgasms. Which one was it? Your RATIONAL minds (read that as "not hormonally influenced") realize that you want and NEED to build a strong relationship OTHER THAN your physical sexual relationship. Very smart!
Do you guys have any good advice that can get our minds off sex when we hang out together?
Here's the promise I think you tow need to make to one aother. "WE WILL MAKE SURE WE ARE NEVER TOTALLY ALONE WITH JUST EACH OTHER. WE WILL MAKE SURE SOMEONE ELSE IS AROUND EVERY TIME WE ARE TOGETHER". What I mean is, only be together in public places, or if in places like your house ONLY when your mom is like, in the next room, and could walk in on you at any time. Seriously, you need to do that! You two can be alone together, so that will give you privacy, but not ENOUGH privacy that you'll be able to start takng clothes off and start playing with each other's genitals. (Think about it. Would you do that if your mom was in the next room???)
We want to date for at LEAST a few more months before we even think about sexual things.
So what I am hearing is that the two of you have decided that you are GOING to have sex together; but just not wanting to do it right now. The only problem is that your penis and her pussy DISAGREE with you every time you two take them out and get them all excited and start playing with them!
Remember too that you have to talk about birth control!!! Gat that al decided before you get your stiff cock anywhere near her wet love-hole!! (I bet you have already touched your boy-part to the outside of her girl-parts...haven't you!)
So there is my advice. I hope that's helpful. It will be difficult to follow, but as long as you never put yourselves in a place where it is EASY for you to get naked and put it in and start having sex, then you WIll be able to hold off.
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