I will soon be meeting a guy I have been talking to for a while. He seems very nice and I am not sure how to bring up the discussion about what we like and dislike while having sex. I like a little kink nothing too hardcore but I am afraid that it might scare him off.
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Possible Kink
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I like him lot and I know that I am being paranoid but I have no one else to pose these questions to. The kink is not crap or blood it a little role play and bondage. That freaks some guys and since I am just a simple guy from the country I do not think a guy would expect me to be that way. I know I sound like a scared kid but I like him and I do not want to screw this up.
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If you don't want to scare him off don't bring it up all at once. Let it work it's way into the relationship as time and appropriateness provide a more natural openness.
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Thank you for all the responses. I will take your advice and report how it goes.