Kissing

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I haven't had my first kiss yet. I'm pretty young though, so I guess that's not TOO odd. I'm just a generally shy, nervous person around a guy I really like so I always back down on opportunities. (Although I know I'm going to have to face it VERY soon)Questions: Do you automatically KNOW what to do?Is there such a thing as 'messing-up'?Is it something you gain with experience?Any helpful tips? Hints?Pretty lame questions, but I'm too damn embarrased to ask anyone else.

basically, yes, yes, yes.

i'm sure u've kissed your mommy? same sorta deal.. except on the lips and use of tongue

messing up = unco kissing. if they go slow, u go slow. dont drool and dont be rough.

yes you gain with experience, you gain what your partner likes and therefore what to do to make kissing good for both of you :smile:

tips: practice on your dog.

lol ok maybe not. use your hands when kissing, try to keep your teeth out of it (unless they like it... ?) and dont drool or slobber all over / in him

OK, well, first of all, how old are you?OK:A. Not exactly, I mean, if you know how to kiss in general, do it, just sequentially open and close your mouth.B. Oh, God, messing up kissing really sucks, but all you need to do is remember 2 things: Feedback* and There's always another one coming up.C. Yes, absolutely, feedback really helps on these lines.D. Not really, just that guys love it when the tougne is involed, and some like a really wet one, I personally don't, but some do.*Feedback-if your partner likes what you're doing, keep doing it. If the kiss is dying, liven it up with the tougne.

Well some people take kissing so seriously. I don't know why because kissing is kissing. I think it's fun either way. I've had a few guys leave me with slobber down my chin, and that wasn't very fun however. If you wanna practice and get good without being nervous, ask a close guy friend that you're cool with to kiss you and you'll be fine. That's what I ended up doing. I was actually suprised at how natural kissing is. I'm still not so experienced and it can feel akward when you dont know how certain people like to be kissed. I always end up kissing when I'm drunk so those are always interesting, lol. But yea, just make sure your breathe doesn't smell and your lips are soft. I found out too that it's bad to use the tongue consistently. Slip it in his mouth every so often.

I'm a guy, just got my first kiss about a week ago? I was the one who started it. Never kissed a girl in my life.It does really just come natural. And trust me, you can't really "mess up". Especially if your a girl kissing a guy. Guys aren't sure how fast their going or whatever.Me, I don't care how the kiss is. Kissing is fun as hell. It does come natural though, just move in, kiss em. After a couple kisses, if you want, use your tongue.And for tongue... I dunno. Tongue is where it gets kind of complicated hehe. :-P

1. Somewhat I guess, for the first bit your really nervous and usually the guy is too if it's his first with you. It'll all come, let your feelings and emotions guide your lips.2) Oh there are ways to mess up lol. I remember playing sping the bottle when I was 12 and ended up having to french kiss a very pretty girl. I didn't know what the hell I was doing, we banged teeth, bit eachothers tongues...a horribly embarrasing mess hahaha. Do not worry though, we learn from those mistakes and in these situations we learn fast!3) Most definitely! Just like anything else!4) Create the moment, dont just do nothing with your tongue....massage his with yours. Run your fingers through his hair or hold him or just make physical intimate contact. Good Luck!

Guys also seem to like it when you make little "happy noises" letting them know that you're enjoying it too. Just go with the vibe and don't drool too much or use your tongue like a weapon. LOL.

Thanks

The best advice I can give is this :If you think it feels good, he probably thinks it feels good too.

And, if you don't think it feels good....slap him! OK, kidding. Just liven it up, tougne-wise.......and....also try to use those listereine thingies, those help. And..uh.....thassa 'bout it. No more I can help you on here. Call on me if you need anymore help, I'll be at the City of the Ancients! ::Flies off to Promised Land::