My best was my roommate in university. Now he is working in Hong Kong and I am in another country.
He told me that he had feeling for a man about 8 months ago, which suprised me a lot as he had a nice girlfriend. And later he had a fight with that man and he had not seen him after that. He was confused at that time because he was not sure if he turned to gay or bisexual. I could not give him any clear answer either.
Last night, for the first time he admitted that he might be bisexual and was now targeting on getting a boyfriend.
He met a guy last week and he decided to tell me because he trusted me and knew I would support him.
Of course I do support him. As he is being so honest, instantly I had the urge to tell him that I think I may be bisexual and I am kind of attracted to men too, but I was afraid I would make things complicated.
Look, he wants to get a boyfriend. And if I tell him "Hey I am bisexual too". will it sound like "hey, you like men? Pick me"? And he has just started seeing someone, so if I say I am bisexual, his boyfriend-to-be may tell him to stay away from me because his boyfriend-to-be may be worried that I will steal my best friend away.
I wanted to tell him that I am bisexual when he told me and he was so honest with me last night.
But now I think I have to act really carefully to avoid misunderstanding and misinterpretation.
I appreciate his honesty and his trust. I am ashamed because I have been hiding my secret from him. Should I tell him so that I can have a friend whom I can tell everything?