Does it really matter who you lose it with? (From a guys perspective) I mean, I've been offered sex a few times, but rejected it each time because I feel like I'll hate myself if I regret it, but thinking about it recently, I don't really see why I was making a fuss about it...It would be nice to hear from someone who lost their virginity with 'just anyone' if you know what I mean, and how the felt about it afterwards. Because I am really not sure whather I should make a fuss about it
Is virginity such a big deal?
Well I guess that depends who you are and how you lose it. If you tell yourself it doesn't matter and then lose it to somebody who doesn't matter you will ultimately convince yourself that sex doesn't matter. If you decide it means something and hold out for that special somebody then sex will probably become more meaningful for you.
Personally I lost it really young in a rash unplanned way. Due to the nature of it sex doesn't mean a whole lot to me. I don't have sex often because its not my end game, its just an activity, like playing a board game. Once in a blue moon in fine with me. If loosing my virginity had more meaning when I did it, I would probably have a whole different story to tell. It all really depends on the events in your life and your thought process.