Are they worth the money?
Do they really feel real?
And which ones are best?
I read that those with inner textures are pretty intense
and that the original would be the "easiest" one but I found
a stealth one with tight ripped structure at a cheap price.
I don't want to spend too much cause if it sucks then it
wouldn't be that bad but I don't know if tight ripped might
not be too intense since I struggle with premature O anyway.
Or what about the stamina training fleshlight? Can you really
improve with it? It has a special texture but I wonder if
this isn't just a gimmick. Why should you not also be able to
train with other textures?
And another question: How long do you have to be to enjoy the FL?
I think they are 9 inches long and I'm only around 5 inches so I don't know if it even makes sense to buy one.
Who has a fleshlight?
Are they worth the money?
I have one. I don't use it as much as I thought I would, there is too much preparation and clean up. If you do it right, warm it up in water and follow the direction it feels very close to the real thing. I really enjoy it, but I made the mistake of washing it with soap and while it still feels nice it doesn't feel real anymore.
If you are purchasing a real FleshLight they are all the same whether its a vagina, butt, mouth, or plain. Just the inside is different if you purchase a different groove pattern. I only have the plain one and never tried the others.
I doubt it will help you with stamina anymore than regular masturbation.
Also, you can enjoy the fleshlight no matter what your dick size may be, being longer won't make you get more out of it, if anything it may make it uncomfortable if you can reach the end of the light.
I thought about buying a sex in a can masturbator instead cause they are smaller and shorter. The fleshlight looks pretty huge imo. I also don't know where I should hide it since I live at home. And how long does this need to dry? I cannot hang it anywhere to dry for hours I could only blow dry it with cold air.
And I also heard that it has to be powdered and some say use talkum powder and others say they use corn starch but i read that corn starch can develope mold which actually sounds logical and you dont want to get mold in there...
And does anybody know what the differences between Fleshlight and Fleshjack are? I am not gay but the Fleshjack Ice Closet Speed Bump for example is cheaper than the Fleshjack Ice Stealth Speed Bump at one store and the both look almost the same. Can I simply buy the Fleshjack?
And can you use Fleshlight inserts in a Fleshjack shell?
I have one with several different inserts. I don't use it very often but I does feel very close to the real thing. The plain was the first insert I purchased. Although it's enjoyable, the ones that have texture are much more heightening in pleasure. I've learned that you don't always have to prep them with warm water and keep them powered with baby power. You don't have to warm them up with hot water if you don't want to. It's fine at room temperature. Warming it up just adds to the illusion that you humping something real. We keep ours in the dresser drawer under some t-shirts.
If you're looking to add variety to you personal time when you need to bust a nut I think it was worth the purchase.
I have some questions:
Do you use it with or without condom cause if you use it without then you have to wash it after that right?
If you powder it do you powder only the outside or also the inside? And what do you use as powder? I read different things like corn starch or talcum powder but I also read that corn starch can start to grow mold which sounds logical. I also think it's crazy how much the original FL powder costs which is simply corn starch. they totally rip the people off.
If you use it with a condom then would you have to wash it because after all you need to get the lube out right?
And since the FL is pretty huge and since I only have 5 inches I wonder if this wouldn't be somehow depressing to have such a long device. Would a sex in the can masturbator be better?
I also can't control ecajulations very well and usually when I'm horny I come totally fast. Should I then buy a normal one or one without much texture? They have this stamina training kit which I read is very intense but what sense does this make? if it's so intense then I stick my thing in there and most likely directly come which is pretty stupid imo.
And do you know if the Fleshlight and the Fleshjack differ much if you have the same inlays or is it basically the same only a different name and different entrance which looks like an ass?
I'm asking cause the FL stealth looks exactly like the FJ closet and the FJ closet is a bit cheaper at one store.
And do you think that the ice models are good or does it suck when it's transparent?
Did you know that talcum is dangerous?
That's crazy. And a lot of people use talcum for their fleshlights and it's even sold by shops as fleshlight care product. Why are there no warnings?
I've been doing research into buying one too, and from what I've looked into, Fleshjacks and Fleshlights are the same thing. The only different thing that I can see really is the website and who they're marketing it to (gay vs straight men). The material, inserts, and (for the most part) openings are otherwise the same.
If the lube was/is water-based, I wouldn't imagine you'd need to wash it, since it'll just dry anyway. You can't use oil/petroleum based ones with FLs anyway, bad for the material.
As far as size goes, I think they're only something like a foot long, probably less, easily hideable in a drawer or under a bed. And whether or not its a shorter "can" one or the full sized one, I don't think it'd make much of a difference in regards to your size. I'm not much more than you either.
And personally, I would find some added pleasure out of the clear one, only because you can see what you're doing; kind of like jacking off with lights on vs off. :wink:
The "Cancer Prevention Coalition" seems to be mainly Samuel Epstein, who seems to have been going considerably further with some cancer scares than the data supports.
Talcum powder can be contaminated with asbestos, but how commonly this occurs is disputed. There are some studies linking asbestos-free talcum powder with cancers, but these use very high doses. For example, the 1993 National Toxicology Program report quoted in the link involved rats forced to inhale talc for 6 hours a day, five days a week, for at least 113 weeks. Any sort of dust would cause tumours at that level, due to extreme lung irritation. Talcum powder is used so much that anything more than a very small risk would cause noticeable differences in cancer rates between users and non-users.
Thanks, but I think that I'd rather use corn starch than talcum. I also read that Fl officially recommends corn starch.
But I wonder is it really possible to get the sperm out if you cum in there? Cause usually when sperm gets in contact with water it becomes really messy and it builds those strings which are gluelike. What if you can't really get it out and some remains stay in there that would be pretty disgusting and also not hygienic.
And what orifice is best? I read that the butt orifice allows a deeper penetration because the orifice itself is not as thick on the outside as the other ones. Would this be a reason to get a butt version? But on the other hand the butt entrance looks really tiny and I wonder if that couldn't be uncomfortable. What if it's so tiny that it cuts off the blood supply?
Btw, I wonder if I'd even feel much when using an FL cause
I have a short frenulum. I can only pull the foreskin back over the head but not further and so it looks like a turtleneck and the sensitive skin which is on the inside of the foreskin cannot be used. it's basically the same as being circumcized and having the entire foreskin removed.
But I'm pretty sure that this inner foreskin plays a huge role so not being able to use it sucks. Anybody here who can comment on this? How important is the foreskin compared to the glans? If I didn't have the short frenulum then I could roll it down and I'd get a few centimetres full of totally sensitive skin which can't be compared to the normal shaft skin. I don't think that you get any sensation from the shaft skin at all so this means that the glans is the only thing you feel with or do you also feel something with the shaft?
I read a bit on the FL forum and often it is said that the only thing which matters is the girth but how does this matter when you use an FL? Girth only profits the women but not the men. Since you don't feel anything at all on the shaft what difference does it matter wether you have 5 or 6 inches at the thickest point of the base? The only thing which matters is the size of the glans which is of course much smaller than the shaft.
It's possible to get the frenulum lengthened by having it partially cut under local anaesthetic, though yours doesn't seem too bad.
Often the foreskin rolling up and down over the head contributes to the sensation.
And in regards to cleaning, it's on the site that usually the best way is to run warm-hot water through it, and i would guess you could kind of shake it too, if you replaced both of the caps and filled it half full with water.
Regarding orifices, that would depend on personal preference, as to your tastes in tightness etc. I wouldn't think it'd be so small as to harm anything, else they wouldn't sell them.
I know that there is a surgery for that but I am not keen on it at all. Is it possible to stretch it somehow? I read that the frenulum cells cannot be stretched.
I think it sucks that there are so many different FL versions making it so hard to choose and they also cost way too much. How much do you think costs such a ridiculous insert? I bet the production costs are like 1 dollar or so. What a rip off.
And as far I know my myself if I got one I'd try it and then be totally scared of my parents finding it and then I'd throw it away and then I'd regret buying one but at the same time I am curious about it but maybe it also totally sucks and doesn't feel good at all. I also read about people who didn't like their versions.
ps: I registered at the FL forum many days ago and those jerks still have not activated my account! Great customer service... assholes!
I would say that if you can comfortably afford it, and want it, why not get it? If you're slightly disappointed with it, then you can use it occasionally. If you're nervous about hiding it, maybe save and old shoebox and keep it in there, under your bed; somewhere like that your parents wouldn't go. And depending on your age, I think even if they DID find it, they wouldn't raise too many questions about it.
but if it was just hidden somewhere then i couldnt leave the house without always worrying what if it's found? i needed to lock it somewhere but the only thing lockable i have is a rather thin samsonite suitcase but i dont know if it would fit in there & there is no ventilation so i dont know if it wouldnt start to get mouldy. i also thought about separating the inlay and the shell and keep the inlay somewhere else cause the inlay is much more obvious. but where? i thought about for example putting it in a plastic bag and then putting the bag in a protein tub and then covering it with some powder like dextrose cause my parents wouldnt use this could this be a solution?
and there's this stuff which is hygroscopic and in small bags when you buy shoes to keep them dry. could such small bags be used to prevent mold in case the inlay shouldnt be 100% dry?
I would think that the hygroscopics could prevent mildew and mold if you needed to seal it when it was wet. But I wouldn't imagine that it'd get moldy, I don't think the material is suitable for mold to grow.
As for hiding it, the idea of a tub or something could work well. I think it'd be simpler though to use a shoebox/small box. It's inconspicuous and fits readily under a bed. Maybe put some other boxes in front of it so it's not right out in the open.
Do you also use alcohol to clean it every now and then? I read that you should use alcohol too and not just water. But I wonder if the alcohol doesn't attack the rubber tissue.
I think you can as long as you dilute it with water. If i remember right, when i was looking, you can't use straight alcohol on it without risk to the material.