Ok I am 17 years old, and i finally lost my virginity a week or so ago. I used a condom, but im just wondering if your supposed to cum with ur dick still inside of her even with a condom on? it just feels like if it broke... oh shit then what the hell do you do? i just wanna make sure your still not supposed to pull out or some thing even with a condom on, cause it scared me the condom got pretty filled up...
Yes, the idea is that a condom allows you to cum while still inside her. Of course you could pull out earlier if you want to be doubly sure.
When you put the condom on, there is usually a reservoir at the tip to hold the ejaculate. You should pinch it when you put the condom on, to make sure it's empty and has plenty of room to fill.
When you pull out, hold the condom on at the base of your penis to make sure it comes out too. You should make sure you pull out before you go soft.
I'd pull out anyway just in case....it's always safer anyways!
"Put both index fingers on either sides, and apply pressure inwardly"
There's always a chance that it might break. No form of birth control is 100% effective. Just don't try using more than one condom at a time, or you will likely have it break on you. Also, be aware of the expiration date. Some guys carry a condom in their wallets, and by the time they get to use it, it's most likely deteriorated. I recall myself and some of my friends used to carry condoms with us. Like we were ever going to get any (at that age, anyway).
If this is someone you're going to have sex with on a regular basis, you might want to have her get on the pill. Of course, she has to remember to take it every day...
At the same time, condoms can stretch pretty good. If you ever get the chance, blow one up like a balloon. You'll be surprised at how big it can get.