I chatted with this girl and talked with her about sex and stuff and then she asked me if i wanted to talk to her bf and I said yes and then he chatted about jacking off and sex and such things and i found it arousing. not that I am gay, but was this gay somehow?he even told me that he's got a hard one while we were chatting and at the end he ejaculated. i on the other hand didn't have a hard on i only had a hard on when i was chatting with his gf.
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Is what I did gay?
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If you weren't hard, you weren't very aroused.
Talk about sex is perfectly normal among guys, and it is quite normal for guys to find it arousing. It's not so common, though, for girls to hand over to their boyfriends in the middle of sex talk, and unless this was on video, they may have been the same person.
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I know but I don't think they were the same cause the wrote different and the guy also replied much faster than his gf.The gf was also a bit weird and he was much cooler somehow so I think they weren't the same persons. But somehow I really came to like chatting about sex.
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I agree. I've talked about that kind of stuff with my friends all the time. It's not gay, it's just good conversation.
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Not gay at all!! Dont worry I talk super sexual with my female friends too :)!
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Okay, I'm glad bout that. Originally Posted By: StephieJI talk super sexual with my female friends too :)! Now that turns me on, lol.
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I think so few guys get the chance to have honest conversations about sex with other guys. Seriously...how many guys feel free to say to another guy things like "hey, I jacked off last night" or "Bob's dick is bigger than mine. Is he bigger than you?" I don't happen to think conversations like this are gay at all. Just rare. So if you're having a conversation about sex with a guy - particularly a somewhat explicit one - I would say the combination of doing something you rarely get to do and the fact that it might be construed as a form of "intimacy" might create feelings of arousal or feelings that might be confused with arousal.
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Originally Posted By: tonymI chatted with this girl and talked with her about sex and stuff and then she asked me if i wanted to talk to her bf and I said yes and then he chatted about jacking off and sex and such things and i found it arousing. not that I am gay, but was this gay somehow?he even told me that he's got a hard one while we were chatting and at the end he ejaculated. i on the other hand didn't have a hard on i only had a hard on when i was chatting with his gf. Not gay at all dude. Ive had many conversations with a particular friend. Obviously the boyfriend feels comfortable talking about this sort of stuff with you, so take that as a compliment. I couldnt talk sex with just any guy, it would have to be a friend who i really trusted. Ive got hard on nearly all occasions talking to my friend and he gets hard on some occasions. Chatting about stuff opened up an opportunity to jerk off in front of eachother and that was a unique experience. have u ever thought that this girls boyfriend might be "BI"?
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Hi! I don't think he's bi.
I asked him about what kind of stuff they do and he doesn't even like anal which I think is weird. I could rather understand a woman not liking anal but why should a man not like it when it's much tighter?