everything in our relationship was great, i mean it was like perfect...we have had a rough relationship, but then everything got so great, and one day, he went to hang out with a couple friends and stuff, spent the night...ever since he got back, he seems to get mad at me for everything, and he'll try to leave me over the stupidest fo reasons...he says hes just afraid of getting hurt, or me leaving him, when he knows i wont!....when he got back, i swear i did nothing wrong, i kept the same pace as all those other great days, trying to make these ones great...but hes been acting strange, and always getting mad at me, for no reason, what happened? its kinda suspicious? like, i would always email him tons, and say i love you, i miss you and i cant wait to see you contsatly, he used to love it, now he says its annoying, and he gets mad at me for it...(his friends think emailing people alot when you miss them and stuff is obsessive) i mean...yeah, i could cut down on the emails and stuff, but im scared, and i love him, but hes always getting mad at me lately, when i dont do anything wrong...what could be the case? he knows hes acting dumb, he said, last night, i know ive been a jerk, and you deserve so much better, im going to make it up to you...yet this morning, he does it again, and he tells me I want someone else...and i know that i only want him...just why has he been acting like this?
There's something on his mind. He might be cooling off, or being tempted elsewhere, or dreading commitment, or just under stress from something else. Unless he tells you, it doesn't look promising.Emailing a lot can be something to cut down anyway - more than once a day is probably not a good thing.
Well, you sound like a really great girlfried! BTW I wouldn't take into account what Ineligible aid because noting justifies being an asshole! Also yuo shouldn't care what his friend say because they're probably not in the same type of relationship and what guy wouldn't appreciate his girl chcking in and seing how he is doing and saying she loves him. Anyways how old are you and your BF?
Everything looks different at 186mph!
Usually for me a change of attitude is a sign of impeding relationship doom. The signs are usually there for a couple days to a month. He might not be able to break up with you cause he doesn't have the guts. So he does things to push you to want to break up with him. It's used by some individual's. Talk to him about it and ask his friends or anyone that will tell you what is going on. Possibility is him being unhappy about something and he's taking it out on you. This of course is underserved. You feel you love him. But when you walk away from that kind of relationship and reflect you know that ending it is the best thing for you. Short term it's going to hurt. Long term it is going help you learn the basis of a healthy relationship. The whole constant email not a good thing to do on a daily basis.
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