Fingering...

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Originally Posted By: ashley69I can't take any of your posts seriously. you need some serious help. What kind of help? You mean help from a totally hot nurse which wants to steal my virginity?

Yup sure why not.

I highly doubt that this would happen. I have also never seen a hot nurse.

I was thinking the same thing.

I am actually being completely sarcastic and non- giving- a- shit when I wrote that.

I was being completely serious. I think he's like 13...or 25 and Amish

We actually did and I don't think it was as messy as I thought it would be...but it did hurt a little when he fingered me. I'm not sure how he was doing it (my eyes were closed), but when I've done it it didn't hurt. I guess he was going deeper?? I don't know.

In reality things are seldom as bad as we make them out to be in our minds.He was doing it wrong. Young guys don't have a clue about the female... well female anything. They just don't. As a former "young guy" I can authoritatively say, all they know is what they've seen in porn and heard from their friends. Neither of which has any place in reality or informs skill in any way. Even if a guy has "finger banged" a hundred chick if one hasn't shown him how to go about it, he doesn't have a clue. Add his clueless approach to your probably apprehensive tenseness and it's unlikely fireworks would go off. If you feel comfortable and want to teach him, make a sexual game of it. Tell him what feels good and when he does something you don't enjoy let him know to go back to doing what was making the sparks fly.

I'm pretty simple when it comes to that. I do wish he would stick to one method...I've directed him a little.I'm pretty clueless with guys parts as well, even more clueless than him as I've never touched a guy's penis, ever, until I touched his. Last night he admitted he had blue balls. I don't know if he's had it before, last night was a little "dry". He also said that he really likes oral and he knows I don't.... I'd like to hope that I could get him to finish without oral, but if he likes it and it's guaranteed to get him off.... I just don't want anything on my mouth or face...though I have thought about biting (not hard), but that's different than sucking. I don't know if that will have the same effect. I don't think he trims his pubic hair, that would make it even more awkward, and that coupled with my germophobia....