I'm not overweight or a smoker and though I do have poor circulation, I think it is due to being anemic and having low iron in my blood. I'm glad these have inactive ones at the end with just iron in it.
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On Birth Control for First Time
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Thanks for the positivity. :smile:
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I was an overweight smoker for a long time.. these are things that can possibly happen but do not happen to everyone
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Another reason why I hate BC... I know I shouldn't be making a big deal about it because it's a great invention. I ended up having to miss two days because I didn't want to pay the $85 at the off campus pharmacy. If I had been smart I could have avoided all this and gotten the prescription before I left two weeks ago. Today I went to the pharmacy to get the prescription refilled and now I have to wait 'til this afternoon because I had the prescription transfered out, blah, blah, blah....I felt so stupid. I thought it would be easier talking to a woman, because I had questions about when exactly I should take the missed pills...I guess she was nice and I'm just overly sensitive, but just how she was talking to me made me feel really stupid. I tried to tell my boyfriend that I had a really, really important prescription to pick up before 5...maybe if I had just come out and said "it's birth control!" he might have come earlier and I may have gotten it. It probably still been a hassle with their stupid transferred prescription rules. Life was so easy before...sort of. I'm doing this for him. I could wait years to have sex, but I imagine he can't. We've already gone to the next level and still not have had sex...and I can't do oral. Soon he's going to want the real thing and I want to have as much protection as I can other than a condom. Before I was on BC and we were fooling around (dry humping) there was always this worry in the back of my mind that I could get pregnant. There's less worry now...so far, but I'll never feel 100% safe. I really, really don't want a kid.It sucks not having a car and being on someone else's time and it sucks to be poor. I need a better job that pays more and offers health insurance.
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try to relax, and enjoy sex, don't have sex just because he wants too u'll start to feel bad about it and him do it because u want to, first few times is a adjustment time 4 u please relax as much as u can it'll get better, esp if u teach hjm how u like to get off.
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Thanks the thing, I don't know if I'll ever be ready. I think I like pleasing him more than I like being pleased. Just feeling his body move, his sounds, his eyes when he opens them for the first time...that's what turns me on, but I don't want him to think there's nothing he can do for me. I don't know.... I don't know how he would react to all that.
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one of two ways, do u have a desire 4 sex, have ur hormone level checked out and ur thyroid also, the b/c pills should help a little, Only u can say if ur ready, for both ur sakes find out,
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I don't know if it's all mental...I do have a fear of getting pregnant. I really like him and like being close to him...if I were going to give it up to someone, I wouldn't regret it if it were him and I wouldn't mine giving it up to him. He's a pretty good candidate. We've gotten a bit hot and heavy already. I do think my hormones are out of balance...but I don't know for sure. I don't have this raging sex drive...I don't feel suppressed because I'm not having sex.
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if ur going to.... not when? u should have tests done to check ur hormorme levels and thyroid, dou u masterbate by ur self or only with him? ur using BC if ur still worried about preg, then add comdoms to lessen the worry, have u ever read the Joy of SEX, or more Joy. ever watch a pron movie? w/o him?
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I've masturbated and have watch porn with out him, before our relationship...nothing new. I remember mentioning watching porn or him masturbating while I was in the room and he said he didn't think he could do it.Condoms were already apart of my plan...I wouldn't have sex without him using one.I've never read either of those books.