Boyfriend Trouble

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I think he's going to break up with me, again. We just got through chatting. He expressed doubt about us, that he's afraid of commitment, bad at relationship, selfish...he was just throwing up all this stuff. It made me mad, but mostly very sad. I just want to try, to not be afraid of pain and be in a relationship. I want to love somebody. I always get so close and something happens and we never become anything thing. I feel the universe is slapping me in the face. I don't want to break up with him, even in all his faults I still like him. I like being around him so much, but lately things have changed (like I mentioned in the beginning of this thread) and I knew he was having these feelings.

I just don't understand why he would want to do this again if he was having doubts. The same issues we talked about today, we talked about last year when we shortly coupled and then broke up. Nothing's changed. I just want him to try, I mean that what couples do when they really want to be together. Maybe he doesn't want to be with me that much.... :frowning:

I know now that I can loved and beloved. I'm not some reject that nobody wants. It's possible for me. I won't die alone.

I did get the impression from your first post in this thread that the two of you might not be well matched. Of course, two people will never have completely identical interests, but there seemed to be so much difference in your interests.Of course if people aren't compatible, it doesn't mean anything bad about either person's worth as a companion - it just means they aren't right for each other.

I'm tired of companions, I like him a lot. I doubt if I could hang around him and not want to be is girlfriend (If we were to break up). Before we got back together and we would just hang out, I couldn't stop not being with him, or touching or kissing him in a very non-platonic kind of way.

My love life seems so hopeless. It's so hard to find someone that knows what it's like to have my kind of problems (relating to anxiety, depression, and family).

I hear alot from people that a some couples arn't compatible. It's like what a friend says to try to help make sense of a someones discourgement from the relationship. If in your mind you don't feel the need to continue further, I guess you can put that perspective on it. But I like to think the pain is part of the game and if your keep making the decision to stay together(the both of ya's) and that all things can be worked out than thats a relationship that will Pervevere.

Thank you...we shall see. As of today, we haven't broken up.

It's official; we're over.

Hug

Im sorry hun :frowning: Its hard but I promise you it will get better.

Thank guys. I really wanted to be with him...he "seems" to be taking it better than me....

Aww, I'm sorry. hugs

Thanks.