OK I am 16 and I have tried to masturbate countless times, yet every time I try I cut short. If I stop while I'm at my clit it's because I start violently twitching to the point that I lose control of my hand and I have to stop. If I am fingering myself I stop because I feel as though my vag is burning and it gets rather painful, the sensation loses its intensity after a few minutes as well which makes me want to stop. I have never had sex and I have had one internet boyfriend that lasted a little over half a year and I have never had a boyfriend in person. Whenever I feel the sensation change (I think I am climaxing but I'm not positive) I get scared and stop. My parents always gave masturbation a bad name and it has always made me feel... i cant think of a good word but i feel bad and kind of disgusted with myself when i try because of it.I REALLY want to orgasm and have been trying to for months. Any ideas?I usually listen to music that turns me on and I look at pictures through a slide show type setting on my laptop. My imagination is vivid and I can usually get that sensation from just daydreaming for five minutes so I don't think it has anything to do with "material"
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Scared to Orgasm! What can I do?
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i think i should also mention i dont use lube (unless saliva counts):P
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First question is... what are you afraid of?
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i dont know i think its just the fact i have never felt one before and every time i get close i wuss out
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Well the only thing I can say is that nothing will happen to you except it will feel great... Go for it!
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Try it right now!, tell me what it feels like, it feels AMAZING, trust me, just keep going.
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you should try lube it helps some. Candles with a nice smell are good. i think you need to just relax and keep trying it. but dont rly think about orgasming just think how it feels or about a guy or something
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I would but I don't know where to get and wouldn't everyone look at me funny? XD
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just go to like walamrt they got ky is it good. i think its by the tampons or condoms idk. nobody even rly cares if u buy it or not
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- First off, masturbation is healthy. Don't listen to your parents. It's a beautiful thing for everyone, and a private thing that you don't have to share with anyone.2. If it hurts, don't do it. That's a simple rule for life.3. Here's another, if it feels good, do it. If there is nothing medical stopping you from reaching orgasm, even if it feels strangely... "amazing".. just do it, you'll thank yourself later.4. If you think there's a problem, see your doctor about it, or do some of your own research on medical sites.Hope that helped a bit
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guhh i am so close! this is driving me nuts... i figured out what i needed was a toy so i made one on my own. I know the feeling of needing to pee is a sign i'm getting close and i know i was RIGHT THERE and that fucking fear of mine got to the best of me. half the fear of pissing myself and the other... i dont even know... i got so upset that i stopped i actualy made a few tears xDDD
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Not everyone "squirts" during an orgasm or releases urine. If you are afraid or urine, go to the bathroom beforehand... otherwise, get some old towel or do it in the tub?