This one chick

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There's this one chick I know. I think she might like me somehow and I also like her. She has a cute face and is also intelligent, which I also like. I thought maybe she could become my girlfriend in the future.But lately she has been putting on weight. She has always been a little chubby but I feel like she is gaining more weight and I'm worried. This doesn't turn me on at all. I wish I could just tell her to stop eating that much I mean what is she thinking? Does she not realize that she is gaining weight!?I don't get it. I don't understand why do people gain weight and even more weight and not pull the break? Why do they simply accept it and don't care? My relationship with her isn't close enough for me to tell her that she should eat less so what can I do? I want to help her keep her shape and stay attractive and not go down the hill. Without intervention she might turn into a really fat woman one day which would be terrible cause she has such a cute face and potential to be beautiful but if she goes on like this then I really worry for her. Do you think an anonymous email telling her to eat less could help her or do you think this would only make her eat more? I gotta do something I just don't know what. Or shall I put it all on a line and just tell her in an email that I like her a lot and that I want her to be my girlfriend but that she has to stop eating that much because she's gaining way too much weight? I'm so restless.

In general eating less is not the solution.. it's eating healthier foods that helps.

Her weight is her issue and none of your business. Just like you not finding "fat" attractive is your business. Let he deal with her own issues and you stay out of it.

Don't be a dick.

I don't care wether she eats less or more healthy as long as she loses weight. And yes, this is my problem because I already picked her as potential gf and if she keeps gaining weight then I cannot be with her. And I also hate seeing somebody with potential ruin his body. She needs to lose weight and tone up her muscles and then she'd look awesome because she has naturally huge boobs. I don't get it why she doesn't tone up and become really sexy. This is almost a crime.

Then that's your problem not hers.

It is also her problem because if she gets fat and ugly she ends up alone and sexually frustrated and then probably kills herself one day. So you see this is a very serious issue. I might be her only hope!

Yes, you are a Godsend for every woman. smirk

I know it's a foreign concept but the choices people make with their lives are done irrespective of you, and what you think is best for them.

You make it so easy for yourself. I cannot just look away and see others suffer. I try to help people.I sent her an anonymous email where I told her that I know her and that I have a crush on her but cannot tell her who I am at least not yet and that I worry about her weight and told her that she should try to eat less and exercise more and then I also complimented her body and told her that I totally like her cute face and outstanding breasts. I told her that ever since I first saw her I had a crush on her and that she has huge potential to be a 10/10 at least in my eyes if she gets in shape. I also gave her some links to sites which give weight loss advice. I really hope that she will take my advice to heart and reply back to me.

When she kicks you in the dick, please take a picture.

Your for got to add that he share it, Lish.

Tony, perhaps you don't know anyone besides her who's naturally inclined to be heavy. For some people eating is an impossible addiction, especially if it's tied to emotion. It can be as hard to keep dieting as it is for some smokers to quit. This girl you're talking about might have underlying emotional or hormonal problems that her weight gain is stemming from. If you like her, you should try to find ways to help her that aren't so selfish. Sure, you seem to want her to be happy, but you seem much more interested in her having a "hot" body type. Weight can be a very sensitive issue for some people, and one that skinny or normal people don't seem to be able to understand unless they know someone with a weight problem well, or have been through it themselves. You have to try and sympathize, and realize it's not her fault, and obesity isn't just an essentially bad, self-destructive thing that anyone should be able to easily stop in a second. If you think she's beautiful, she's beautiful no matter what size. Obviously, you're opinion of her beauty is conditional, which means it's very superficial. Even the way you refer to her as "this one chick" and "potential girlfriend" is very demeaning. You really have to learn to respect people more. This girl might be eating because she's miserable and doesn't think she's beautiful like you assume. Or maybe she just doesn't care about her size, maybe she thinks big is beautiful. Maybe she even prioritizes eating over her looks, like you prioritize sex over respect and sympathy. You have to remember that some people don't have to worry and stress over what they eat every day, and they still have naturally thin/toned bodies, for others daily maintenance and concentration is needed. Some people just don't have the will or the need to be skinny, and you have to accept that that is the natural way this girl looks. Her weight may just be in fluctuation right now, and may drop again. If you really like her, you'll accept her at 120 lbs and at 320 lbs.

Quote: When she kicks you in the dick, please take a picture. maybe she will break it.