@ tangledwebHave you thought about experimenting with a vibrator when you're really wet and horny? I mean somehow you gotta learn to insert stuff in there.
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Pap Smear (sort of) and Vaginal Pain
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I know how to "insert stuff in there", it's just not simple. angle and size are important, so is the texture of the object. I've learned that inserting anything can be painful or frustrating if no one pays attention to those things.
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Tried to get an exam again...failure. it kept hurting couldn't get it in. I immediately started to move around once I felt pain. As the speculum was inserted it felt like my skin was tearing, especially the part around the outside of the vagina near the anus. When I saw the two sizes both looked like an extra large and that there was no way they were going to get in, relaxed or other wise. Inserting tampon are difficult, and they're way smaller than those speculums, plus they don't have to open up like them either. When I remove my tampon, it literally feels like something is gripping on the tampons and keeping me from pulling it out. When my boyfriend has fingered me I know when he using more than one finger, 'cause I feel that tearing and I have to get him to stop.I'm supposed to go again this Friday. It's with a male doctor, (uggghhhhh), but I need answers badly. I really want to find out what is causing my itching an odd discharge and hopefully clear up whether or not I have genital herpes. I've also been looking into buying my own extra small one in case they say some nonsense about them not having a smaller size.