is it abnormal? Does it mean I don't love myself? Don't other people want this too? My ex doesn't understand this. He thinks that I have an unrealistic definition of love. I think he thinks it's about pain and dificulty, but I think he doesn't always have to be like that. It depends on the people and how well they match, right? Relationships shouldn't cause you pain...at least that's the kind of relationship that I don't want. I don't want constant pain. I don't expect perfection. Is there no hope for me? Is this all I have to look forward to?I just want to find someone that will love me back, to have even feelings and work from there.
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Wanting to love and be loved...
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Am I the only one?
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Hi web,Yeah your right relationships SHOULDN'T be able pain and suffering and its not unrealistic for you to want that. Some people will put more effort in than others and have more determination for the relationship to work out.I think its not wrong of you to love and be loved, everyone wants that deep down. However sometimes get that mixed up with the Hollywood effect. With butterflys and all the lovey dovey stuff you see in disney films. Sure it can happen but usually its just at the start as everythings new, the truth is that it goes once you get used to eachother but what a lot of people don't understand is just because that ends doesn't mean you don't still love eachother, just a different stage of the relationship.I'm sure you'll meet someone who loves you back the way you love them! Da Hawk
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Thanks Hawk