my ex is still bothering me that it has turned annoying. i broke up with him looooooong back but he doesnt get it. i told my mom i will go to the cops and inform his parents but mom said "dont it will cause more problems". well life in my country is bothersome with all the society shit and all. if i go to cops and his family they will only blame me "why did you lead him on?" sort of stupid questions etc. even my pet dog was given up for adoption i feel less secure now. my ex is scared of dogs and having the dog at home made me feel safer than i am now.Also now i am "grounded" cuz of his phone calls. i went out 2 days back and i think he saw me and then made the calls. i have been "imprisoned" within my house for 2 years now and even sent to another country to keep me safe. but this is getting ridiculous. mom said "dont go out alone". he made 5 phone calls and when i said "its impossible to get back" he replied "everything is possible". i said "forget about me" he said "impossible" i replied "fine remember me as your past but forget about the present and future we have no relationship now and stop calling me" and he says....."i want you in present and in future impossible to forget you" i argued a lot but he doesnt get it at all! what do i do? i started screaming "leave me alone" a couple times and banged the phone down real hard.now i am sooooooooooooooooo pissed off that i want to commit suicide. i am sick of people around me. those who have read my previous post about my ex should know what kind of person he is. i am seriously sick of everything. i cant trust my parents or others anymore. i want my dog back....or i want to die PS: going to cops is not an option. there is no way i can get restraining order either.
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WTH should i do? die?
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Is he calling on your landline or mobile number? Can you change the number? Voicemail or an answering machine can be helpful to screen calls. The idea is to try not to talk to him at all - it just makes him think he has a chance to wear you down and change your mind.
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he called on landline =/ i cant screen his calls on that. he didnt call on cell phone or i would have blocked him. also changing the number wont help cuz he will get it again, i am sure about that. he is friends with many people who work at the offices. i have stopped answering calls, mom is handling all calls. i honestly thought if i told him to leave me alone verbally he would do it cuz through emails he didnt get my point! i have no wish to talk to him at all.i got permission to buy new pup/s. i am not so happy about it but it gave me some peace of mind so i am better today. i also decided i would do w/e i want and not be scared. i went to the bank with my aunt and he was there but i carried on as if he was just another stranger at the bank (i ignored him 100%). i took care of my checkbook and cash, spoke happily with the manager. i was smiling like i always do when i left. i did a great job at suppressing my anger and emotions.he may take it as "she is happy she saw me"...cuz he is a moron. i was actually laughing at him. i am so fucking pissed off but i cant cry or scream so i am laughing. does that make me crazy?
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If your mother is taking the calls, that's good. If it's him, refuse to speak to him.
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sure enough i will. thanks Pete.
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Quote:now i am sooooooooooooooooo pissed off that i want to commit suicide. i am sick of people around me. those who have read my previous post about my ex should know what kind of person he is. i am seriously sick of everything. i cant trust my parents or others anymore. i want my dog back....or i want to die Whenever you feel like this I want you to call or text me. I am here for you girl!!
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i sure will hun
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Please feel free to PM any of us if you feel the need to talk. We're all family.
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unless you post in the a2a alumni forum on FB. then you get told to basically stfu and stop whining some people...
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Originally Posted By: readytogoPlease feel free to PM any of us if you feel the need to talk. We're all family. thanks i will remember it. hugs
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i will join FB later. need to create a new account and all. i dont want to get stalked on FB by my ex. (>_
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What is the a2a alumni forum?
