I have been with this girl for about 3 months now.
Here is a quick backstory
I am 22
She is 18
We have been dating for several months now, and for the most part our relationship is solid, but there is this one thing that bothers me from time to time quiet frequently. She gets these stomach pains when we hang out and says she only get them sometimes when she is with me. She is the first girl who has ever had this problem with me and it makes me feel guilty and like there is something wrong.
I also have these stomach pains when I start to question our relationship. I care for this girl deeply...maybe even love her because when i think too much i get these painful upset feeling in my stomach like something is not right. And when I think about breaking up with her my heart hurts ...in like a emotional way.
At the beginning of our relationship the spark was intense and passionate, it still is but that spark has died down a lot. Being 18 she can not go to the bars with my friends, and my friends are at that stage in life where all they want to do is go to the bars...when i have grown tired of bars, because they cost too much money.
It seams like our relationship has become routine, we do the same thing every time and I feel as if when she gets older she will get bored of the relationship and seek out a younger guy who goes out and parties and is into the college scene.
I am not sure what I should do at this crossroad in our relationship. She says she is happy, but I know that i bore her at times and she wishes we could go out and party. We have only been together for 3 months and already I feel like we are a old couple.
I care about this girl so much , and honestly the sex is so good, I am addicted to her right now. It might be a unhealthy addiction because I have been ignoring my friends and spending all my time with her...its just that its been so long since Ive had someone I was this comfortable with ( sexually, emotionally) that Im scared to let her go and have to go on with my life again being lonely and deprived of female lovin