So my girlfriend and I have been having sex for only around two weeks, and Im normally pretty experienced all around when it comes to it but Ive never been in this situation and im pretty....terrified.so shes still kind of early for her period, roughly about a week away, the problem is shes not on the pill, and like a dumbash I decided not to use condoms due to her complaining about it(i know i know, my own mistake). I have no reason to believe she really is because I never actually came in her, however I know the whole pre cum thing and how it gets some people. Shes not on the pill so her period comes at random times anyway and she cant pinpoint a general date for me other than sometime next week. The only thing thats scaring me is that shes gotten sick once this week, after dinner one night..and has been complaining about her stomach being in pain and knots. theres my fear of her being pregnant. shes taken two tests already, both negative, but i think it could still be very early for the tests to detect. so is the pains her becoming pregnant, or could it just be her period kicking in? even though the pains have been around for a couple of days and still...no period. Im so confused and stressing myself to death over it. Please help.
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Can someone PLEASE help ease my mind!
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There is no way anyone can answer this except for "wait and see". If her period is due... then she will have aches and pains... totally normal. If she misses her period and you retake a pregnancy test, you will know for sure.
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yeah i appreciate it, i just assumed if she were hurting like she has been she would have already started and she normally doesnt have pains like that..who knows
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Now she's sayin its a pain around her belly button/abdomen at random times throughout the day, is it too soon to have these pains to be pregnant? We've only been having sex for two weeks? And like I said her period isn't for at least a week
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And as of today she has taken her third test I guess cause she's so paranoid and it also read negative
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Dude.. you don't get "pains" when you are pregnant. Relax..
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She should wait until her period doesn't come before doing a test. They are not really reliable before then.
The pains are probably from stress. Note that stress could well cause her period to be delayed by up to a week even if she is not pregnant.
It's very unlikely that she is, but pulling out early is not a reliable regular contraception method, not just from the possibility of sperm in pre-cum (a very very small but not zero chance of pregnancy), but from the near-certainty that one time you will leave it just a bit too late. It's certainly not worth all this stress!
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Ok she just got off her period, which only lasted two days. And took a test this morning. It read negative, but two hours later I looked at it for shits and gigs and there's a very very faint line. If its positive shouldn't it have came up way earlier? I'm so confused.
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I believe there is only a certain period for which the reading is valid after which the line colors may change.. you should read the flyer that comes with the test
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If she got her period she is practically certain not to be pregnant.
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Very unlikely that she is pregnant as shes had her period. Stress and worrying can cause her pregnant to be off or "not normal".Smarten up.. unless you want babies running around either get her on the pill or use condoms EVERY SINGLE TIME. You don't NOT use condoms because someone doesn't like the way it feels. Cover your own ass and put a rubber on it.
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Hi JAO, If I have got it right, it works like this, from day one of her period, her period should last 7 days, average, 14 days to her ovulation day, then 7 more days back comes her period or should, and you have to remember it take 3 days for sperm to get to the egg, but there are the od women who can get pregnant from anytime of the month, no you have to way all these things in, and just sit back and wait.But if she really has these problems with her periods, then she should really think about the BC pill, this would regulate her and put her periods on track, and also be a lot safer for you.But all ways remember every time you want a rat-a-tat-tat be sure to were a mac.Some how I do hope this helps.Good Luck