So, I was talking with a coworker and we somehow got on the subject of "Brokeback Mountain" and I started to tell him about the plot of the movie. He couldn't understand how a guy could go from having (vaginal) sex with a woman to having (anal) sex with a man, because vaginal sex is so great. He mentioned how a girl he was dating trick him and I assume fingered him in the butt or something. I didn't ask details. He said he didn't like it at all. To me they just seem like two holes, but I'm the virgin. I feel like I have no authority on anything relating to sex. I've been told it's great and all, but I can't even orgasm from fingering. I'm more opening to trying anal 'cause I think my butt been stretched more (from non-sexual experiences). So it doesn't gross me out as much. It's just another option for me since I'm not that eager to try vaginal.
Okay, I got off track a little. Since guys don't experience the pain (that I know of) from vaginal sex, they think it feels great, but for a virgin I'd said it's equivalent to a guy having a guy stick his penis in hi butt for the first time. _For the ladies that have tried both anal and vaginal sex, which was more painful for you the first ti_me? Maybe straight guys could consider it a rite of passage...to experience what it's like for a virgin women the next time they are so eager to have sex...or just to get some sort of understanding.... I don't know.