Confused and worried about gynecologist thing.

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This is quiet hard for me to know how to start...Last night I was having sex with a girl and the condom split. I noticed before I'd cum. She was very freaked out by this because she had had something done and apparently even a very small amount of seaman could cause some kind of infection.I know this is a bit vague, but she worried and I didn't understand everything she was talking about. If you need some of the other things she said to help work out what this may be the I will provide them, but I think it may cause more confusion.I know that there is a risk of pregnancy even though I didn't cum. What I don't know is what this other thing maybe and how real the risks are.Please help me, I am very worried.

Welcome to A2A, whiteshoes.Precum (the fluid that can slowly ooze from the penis when you are excited) can pick up semen left behind from a previous orgasm, if you haven't urinated since then. Even then, the amount is usually very small; if you have urinated since your last orgasm, the amount is negligible. Although pregnancy therefore is theoretically possible from precum, it must be very rare. Most pregnancies that result from using the 'withdrawal' method of contraception are due to withdrawing too late.Is your girlfriend allergic to semen? That is possible, though rare.In any case, I think you can stop worrying. Of course you don't want condoms to split in future. It is usually the result of one of:1. Using a condom that is too old. The rubber slowly perishes and becomes brittle.2. Storing condoms in a warm place, like a car or a wallet in a pocket. Condoms that are warm perish more quickly.3. Using an oil-based lubricant with a condom - they weaken the rubber. You should always use a water-based lubricant.

That is quiet a relief. I hadn't orgasmed for a few days so I'm pretty sure that I would of urinated at some time since.And just so I'm clear, there's no gynecological procedure that means some precum/cum too soon after can damage the woman in some way?

Having just talked to the girl and it is just the pregnancy. She said she has just finished her period yesterday so hopefully things will be fine.

Thanks for the info.

Good news!