I'm not the jealous type in any of my relationships over talking with other girls or hanging out with them, but it really bothers me to think they could be watching porn, thinking other individuals are "sexy", or going to strip clubs.I know the looking isn't ever going to stop with anyone. I don't know how to handle my emotions and not get irritated over these things. .
His attraction to other female body's.
hi im a male and in response to your question, ur boyfriend should not have any reason to go to strip club or look at porn. now if hes going to a strip club with a bunch of buddies it maybe a diffrent story because its just guy time. but if hes looking at porn and "pleasing" himself something is wrong. either he isnt attracted to u enough or isnt getting laid enough lol. but as for me i love my girl friend, me knowing how shed feel about me going to a strip club, id never do it to her. let him know how much it bothers u and see if it changes anything.
Welcome to A2A, littlebit2small. If the issue is you are stressed by even the possibility that your guy might be attracted to other girls, I agree that this is a problem. (The more so since, as you realise, though your guy may keep away from strip clubs, he is hard-wired to find females attractive in general.)I wonder if at the bottom of it is not enough self-confidence? Perhaps you don't feel confident that a guy will stick with you unless he finds all other people unattractive?