Hi there :smile:
I have a girlfriend for almost 3 months and we still haven't had sex. I was single for more than one year and was masturbating every second day. Now, I masturbate once or twice a week cause I want to redirect all my sexual energy to her and pleasuring with normal sex. But it is hard.
Somewhere I have read that normal girls have no chance to get us excited cause of all those categories of available porn. Well, that's the reason I cut down this porn thing.
But, there is this thing; when I am with my GF, I have noticed that I cannot reach orgasm cause off the slow stimulation. Also, I reach erection, but it fade down cause of small psychological stimuli and not fast enough frequency of rubbing. She had orgasms just by rubbing her pubic part against me, with normal average speed, but I cannot do the same.
Haven't spoken with her about this porn and masturbating issue.
Can someone help me, to give me some clues how to transit from fast masturbating to normal sex; how to slow down masturbating so it would look like to real sex speed, and to reach this slower rubbing technique so it would be just enough to orgasm?
Thanks a lot!