I'm Stan (alias name) and this is my first post here.
I am 19 and have only ever had one relationship about the age of 15, whereby I didn't feel like I was in a relationship, and nor did she (her excuse for cheating on me) we didn't 'do stuff' because the whole situation felt weird.
Yes I am 19 and still a 1st base virgin (not that it matters to me)
My problem is I haven't liked the idea of being in a relationship, with either a girl or guy (curious) is this at all normal?
All my friends who are girls are lovely people but even as friends I come off shy to them.
My friends (girls and guys) all say I'm socially awkward and it takes too long for new people to learn the real me... And I know what they mean but that's my way of making sure my friends are true friends, and the ones I do have, have all grown fond of my funny social awkwardness!
There's a few girls I would date... If only I actually felt like it.
Corny as it seems I wouldn't even know what a date really is!
Is this weird?
Stan, the newest member!
Welcome to A2A, Stan!
I wonder if you are afraid of a relationship, which is not at all unusual. After all, a relationship requires responsibility, and going to trouble, and other things that interfere with a comfortably settled life, or rut.
Honestly, sometimes you need to try it for an extended period of time in order to understand it.
If you don't want to, or don't get the attraction, don't feel pressured into it! There is no reason for someone to feel like they have to date. Life is much simpler your way there is nothing wrong with you, you're just being true to yourself which is wonderful!
I think you need not to much worried about any relation .If any problem in your relation you need to discuss it with others and try to find out some better solution of it and not much worried about it .