OK here goes nothin. For many years I never reached or came close to an orgasm. Now my new husband loves to eat me for very long periods of time. He gets me hot enough to where Im going crazy but I feel like I never get over the top. I just cant stand being in that state for a long time trying to reach the end. As long as I can take it I just scream and moan and hump his tongue. Then I have to command him to stop. He wants to keep going but I just cant take it any more. So we take a break for a minute or so and then he starts in on me again. Almost imediately I get that feeling again like Im almost there but just cant get over the top. We can do this 10 times until Im totaly exhausted and we have to quit. Is it possible Im reaching the top and just dont know it?? Once I get into this state I just want him in me so I can feel him in me thinking maybe something will happen but it never does. My husband is a good man and wants to be great lover but thinks hes not because I cant tell him I got over the top. I asked him once what it feels like for him and his answer is once hes there it lasts for a few seconds and than slowly wears down to almost nothing.So any girls out there that can shed any light on this. NO GUYS PLEASE UNLESS YOU HAVE HAD THIS EXACT PROBLEM WITH YOUR LADY.!!!
Not sure what a complete orgasm is??/
I get that occasionally and it's infuriating! Have you tried using toys? Doing it alone until you can figure it out? Porn? :smile: It took me a couple of years alone to figure out what exactly I wanted to feel and how to get there xx
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It will help you and your orgasm's.