Hi, I need some advice.I am a young married woman. I have problems when it comes to sex.Sometimes I don't enjoy much having sex, I want to have more desire to have sex with my husband.Thank you for your help!
How can I have more desire to have sex?
Welcome to A2A, Swetic.The first thing I would do is to speak to my doctor. You may be having a hormone issue. It is uncommon to have a young person say that they don't enjoy sex. Are you not enjoying it because you are only satisfying his needs and not yours?After that, I would advise trying new positions and places. Push yourself. Spice it up.
What about it are you not enjoying?
He Swetic, Welcome to A2A,, Its not an uncommon problem there are nany things it could be. You can check with the doctor and see it is some kind of a hormonial imbalance, bvut to me, it sounds like tou and your husband need to hunderstand how each other reacts to sex. In my repationshop histpry. I had a partner who when we would have sex just wanted it to be about getting him off first. it was a whole lot of " a little feely feely feely, a little sucky, sucky, sucky and then the main course 5 pumps and he's be spent and roll over and go to sleep. I like the more intimate side of things, snulggling, touching, kissing feeling, messageing mire kissing, and our sessions would list abut 20-30- minutes when he did it, mine were more like a few hours, music, candles, bubblebaths... think hard about what are the things that really rock your boat and make you super satified, what do you think about when your having sex with your husmand? what to you fanitize about when you please yourself? let me know those answers and we can take a closer look