Everyone,I need to know if this is just something that most guys do and if it's harmless... My current boyfriend is always looking at other women when we're together. I myself will look at another guy if he's totally gorgeous and just happens to walk into my line of sight, BUT I'm careful to not make it obvious or hurt my BF. With him though, it seems like the radar is always on and now I find myself looking around and spotting "cuties" and just waiting for his eyes to go up and down them. The guy I dated before him did the same thing and cheated on me, so I am concerned. This is a long-distance relationship, to make matters worse, and so I wonder if it's a sign that I'm crazy to trust him. Any opinions out there? Any guys that think it's a bit tacky too???? Is there an etiquette on how one should look at other attractive people, for M or F???????Am I a paranoid, overly jealous individual???
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Guys with GF looking at other women
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That's totally rude and uncaring. I would not date a guy who did that. Sure, occassionally it happens but it should not be all the time like you describe. It may or may not indicate that he is going to cheat, but jeez, why would anyone want to be with a guy that makes them feel uncomfortable in this manner? There is just no excuse for that kind of behavior in a good relationship.
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it seems like the radar is always on
specially if he's 15/16 or so.
anyway, i look at girls all the time. i try not to let lace see me looking but there are some girls out there that i just can't help it. guys are going to look at what they like. well i do. and my brother does. hell my dad even does. besides wut else am i to do when laces makes me go shopping with her. lol
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Veteran, what if your girlfriend started doing it too? Would it bother you? Isn't there a limit to how many times, how much of a look???
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I don't care what she does. lol hell u should see her room. she's got actor guys every place lol ok I’m feeling that I should have never ever posted here. I look at a pretty girl just like I would at a SWEET ride or dirt bike. so if she don't like me looking at girls she can break up with my ass. cuz I’m going to look at wut I like.
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ooooook no guys are going to help me here.
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Learn how to write a complete and understandable sentence!
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Do u really think ur the 1st to tell me that. NOooooooooo7 want 10 tells me that ALL the time. have i changed NOOOOOOOso ur wasting post space by telling me that. lol
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And the smilies are pretty gay as well!
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Yo.. Chill with CR you fucking faggot.
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All guys are going to look at girls. Its just part of life. No matter what, so he won't change.
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yes they are.
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Yep I'm the faggot that could take you blind folded!
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Oh... Mr Tough guy online.. I'm not even going there.
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You spend your time stoned, I spend mine training and working out.
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I hardly spend my time 'stoned'. So what if you train? Think that makes you Mr. Tough guy? Your just the typical tough guy online, but a total pussy on the streets. I know your type. I'm done with you. I have better things to do.
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That's what weed does to your head! A pussy in the street, no not at all! If someone wants to fight me I'll never bitch out.
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i'm going to have to take Diver's job from him....(i'm kidding Diver i wouldn't do that to u. lol ) soulwoman asked about checking girls out. she didn't ask for the other crap. i'm done.
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Hi soulwoman!I think most guys do this,though some may not be as obvious about it.My husband does. And he told me once that when he and most guys look at a hot lady, usually they are picturing them naked. Seriously! He always looked,adn made it pretty obvious too,but once i found out what he was actually thinking,it really disturbed me. He actually thought that girls do the same thing when they see a hot guy walking past. I personally do not picture any guy naked ect. Sure i may glance that way and think "oh my hes a cutie" or whatever, but not go as far as picture them naked. He seems to think im lying about that. But whatever.So now everytime we are somewhere and a pretty girl walks by, i know what hes thinking, and i look at him and he smiles sheepishly with that guilty look all over his face..So i guess basically,, men are pigs! I wouldnt think by them looking though that they are going tocheat,because they all look,if they show it or not.Have you told him that it bothers you? That you think its tastless and rude? Maybe you should point it out that you notice him doing it and that it really bothers you, maybe he wont make it so obvious.