Not sure if I have ED or not but usually I can get hard by myself masturbating or looking at porn easily. But me and my girl friend just started to have sex recently and sometimes I worry not being able to get it hard. I never had this problem of staying hard before but its eating me up. I will get hard and when I am trying to put it in I sometimes will get soft because it is not going in right away. I am in my early 20's and never ever had this problem as a teen. Now I am scared to go soft every time we have sex. It is kind of embarrassing. Any advice? Also would a 6 inch penis be fulfilling to a female? Just worried I am a bad lover and would like to change this embarassing thing
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Need help
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My guess would be performance anxiety. When you are by yourself, there is no worry to please anyone. When you are with your girlfriend, it's a different matter. You are rightly concerned about pleasing her. The last two sentences of your post, I think, are very telling.
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Just relax. When you are with her, don't be thinking about intercourse. You can fool around and be intimate in other ways; you may suddenly find yourself sufficiently hard enough to progress.
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Six inches is certainly enough. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
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Good advice!