Sorry if there is an open thread about this already but i can't find it. (would love a link if there is one)
I'm very curious about masturbating with another guy. i've had the curiosity for a few years now and i think i've built up the courage to try and find someone. I don't dare ask a close friend cuz i don't want them to find out. I'm straight and have a girlfriend whom i love dearly. this is just kind of an itch that needs to be scratched. does anyone have any advice on where or how to go about meeting someone to do this with? desperate here. HELP.
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how to meet someone for mutual masturbation / experimenting?
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@curiousbuthow You didn't say how old you are or where you live. Masturbating is something were taught to keep private, as kids even though mostly everyone does it and from my experience, most guy friends wouldn't go for it even it they were curious for fear that it would become public knowledge and from the fear of the way we have to label people when they do something personal like that. Personally, growing up, I had a best friend to do that with and my older brother. We were in a band together and.... Well, that's a whole other story... LOL But if you are truly curious about it, I would start by locating a local GLBT center where you will be comfortable and check out their website or call and see if there are any places to meet other bisexual men who share the same curiosity as you. My friend is married with 4 kids and a beautiful, lovely wife who he love more than life itself, but we still get together, after all these years knowing each other, and talk about porn, sex, new positions we tried, what worked for us and what didn't. and we always find time to bust a few nuts together. For us, Its one of those things that keeps us close. it's so nice to share things with another guy who is open and knows my secrets and understands and would take them to the grave before telling someone else. even when we get into stupid friend arguments...
That's where I would start if I were you. Go luck and be smart and make good choices... Feel free to reach out if you have any other questions. You can PM me if you would like.
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There seem to be quite a few people in various parts of the world interested in hooking up for the same thing. So for anyone else who is interested, i would suggest the jackinchat website where people of different geographical locations try to reach out to people in their area through the "personals", whether it be various states or places like the UK and Australia where there seem to be a lot of interested people.
This seems to be a prevalent desire among older guys whose wives have become disinterested in sex due to menopause or what have you. Seems a lot of straight guys, once they reach a certain age, for whatever reason become interested or at least curious about cock. Sometimes younger seeks older and vice versa.
Sometimes you can also get involved in circle jerks as well.
Another thing to try would be craigslist. I've seen ads for that as well. I would just recommend you meet publicly with any stranger first.
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It might surprise you, but jacking off with another guy is not weird. It sounds weird but it actually isn't. That's because for some stupid reason we're raised to think that anything not standard is forbidden ground. That's BS, at least in the case of mutual masturbation. I also think that it's great for friendship and bonding. It's like a certification that you've accessed another level of trust and intimacy. And that moment when you guys cum, it's going to be really good to know that you're both going through the same thing at the same time, and the feeling of it is beautiful. But you both must be cool with the idea because if one of you comes in with preconceived ideas it's going to ruin it and it's not going to be fun. If you do let go, however, and tell yourself you're here to have fun and share something intimate with someone you chose, then you're going to have a great time. I also suggest you do it with someone whose appearance you feel good with. Pay attention: including physical criteria to choose your jerk off partner is not a gay thing. It's just that you're not going to want to look at someone jerk off if you think he's ugly.