this happened a long time ago but i just can't seem to stop thinking about it. i know this is weird but i was masturbating in my room one day and all of the sudden, my mom knocked on the door really quick and walked in. before she got in, i went to stand up but my pants were still down. i told her i was changing my pad because it was my time of the month. and i actually do that too. she knows that i always change my pad standing up in my room and i've been doing that since i was young so it wouldn't have seemed odd for her not to believe me. but i'm not sure if she did. even before this incident, she's asked me questions about masturbation and sex so idk if she believes my story or not. also a month ago, she saw a food stain on my bed and joked about it saying "idk what you're doing in here and i don't want to know what that is." i'm starting to feel really uncomfortable now :/ help
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Help! Did she catch me masturbating? Did she believe my story?
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My advice is to put it behind you and forget about it. Your story all makes sense, and your mom may just be preparing for "the talk."
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My mom caught me when I was 13 and she had the wit and aplomb to say "oh gosh honey, I'm sorry I disturbed your nap, dinner is ready" and left - nothing else was said even though I am quite sure she knew what was happening. I walked in on my dad once when I came home early from university one holiday - I quietly turned and left and he never saw or heard me but I thought 'good for that geezer!'
A teacher told me "it is spiritual axiom that every time we are disturbed, no matter what the cause, there is something wrong with us." Let it go and don't be disturbed, we all do it, it is normal and there NOTHING wrong with it. If your mom judges you that's her problem.
