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My closeness with my guyfriend
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@lavanya174 I have to admit that I got bogged down really quickly from all the text type and I almost gave up. I would be much appreciated if, next time, you typed normally--spelling out words as best as you can.
It appears that he is willing to take whatever you will give. I suggest you give him some time to make a decision-you or his girlfriend. What's happening is not fair to either you or her.
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@readytogo i know that none of this is fair....buts that is the thing....there is no decision to make.....he really does love her.....there is no love element btw us....im his best friend.....n vice versa.....but then he does....that....n i just dont know wat im supposed to do...esp after the last incident....am i supposed to be ok with it.....or did i take it too lightly.....n is he really using me ?
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@lavanya174 My guess is that he will take it as far as you let him. It's up to you to set the boundaries where you begin to get uncomfortable, and it's up to him to honor your wishes. You may need to remind him that failure to stop when you say so is called sexual harassment and could open him up to legal consequences.
You don't need to accept anything that you don't want to, whether you've allowed it before or not.
And thanks for reducing the text type.
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@readytogo thank u for ur help....I really needed some guidance....