What shes hinting

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Hey guys, i'll get strait to the point, im a 11 year old boy, with a 11 year old girlfriend... Ok, I know what your thinking, sexual things with her are not right, if you want to say that to me, post it here: http://forums.afraidtoask.com/topic/29222/please-help-quickly

So, anyhow, today something that left me in total suspense happened, you see, we were sitting on the swing together when she mentioned truth or dare, and before long, we were playing it.

Thats when it got weird... Within 10 minutes of asking embarising questions, and making each other scream 'im a unicorn', we were admiting that we masterbate... She said in her own words 'I've masterbated countless times...' then we got a little perverted... Well, we didnt have sex or take of our cloth and what not, but we started to talk about sex directly, and dicks, and pussys... After a while, I walked her home, and when we were at her driveway, she said she had something for me... I aksed her what it was, but then she said "I changed my mined, maybe i'll tell you tommorow, by!"... Then she left... So... Any advice, cause im just compleatly stuned with confusion...

Well, she's probably just as confused. Confusion is a lot more common in real life than you might imagine! We're so often not sure what we want or (if we know what we want) how to get there. And then when we do take steps, it's often two steps forward and then one back.

No need to force the pace, or to try to get it into a conventional mould. There'll be a lot of uncertainty and suspense to come, it's all part of the journey. Take things as they come.

TL;DR: It's all normal: don't over-analyse, don't be disappointed if tomorrow she acts as if it didn't happen.

Dude, it's very straight forward, you missed a chance, girls are shyer than boys and we we always have to start, filrt and make up the mood.(well in most cases). She expected you to insist and convince her to tell but you didn't. So....., you have to catch up.

@Almist04
to me it sound slike she want a physical relationship but still she is more talk than action scard of what could happen but excited too

@peter I agree!

I want a 'physical relationship' too, but she is way too shy... How do you think I could say to her that its fine...

I'll admit this much, I am a bit shy too, not because off what could happen if we do have that kind of relationship, but how she will react... I mean, she is the only thing that holding my life together, and if I said the wrong thing, and she broke up with me, I might as well kill myself....

I really don't want to be the first one to suggest it, but it seems like shes not gonna stop being so shy anytime soon...