So my senior homecoming was this weekend and it was an interesting night... so background I have been snap chatting this guy for a while but we never really talked before. At the dance, I really wanted to find him to say hi and I didn't realize that I was acting very obsessed with him, as my friends later informed me (I had been drinking). Buy anyway I found him and we were hanging around each other and my friend was there and she told us to go dance together, so I said something along the lines of "hey do you want to go dance" and he said yes so we danced for a while, and while we were he invited me to an after party with him. I didn't end up going because I didn't have a ride, clothes, and didn't want to lie to my mom, but I wish I did, because according to my "friend" he tried to hook up with her all night. This girl seems like she is into the guy, but claims she isn't. I was asked today if I was into this guy, and I denied it, but I am afraid that because of my behavior at homecoming, he also thinks I like him, and I don't want things to be weird. Sure, I'm down for a hook up, but I'm not crushing on him. I also can't tell is he is into me/down for anything, because we hung out at the dance and he invited me to the after party with the intention of hooking up with me, but I think he was just looking for a girl to be with. If he's not into it, I'm fine just being friends because he's a fun person. But then again, we snap chat all the time and had a lot of fun hanging out at homecoming. I am just really confused by this whole situation and I don't know how to handle the guy: should I just let things happen however they happen? He is not very good at dropping hints so I really don't have any insight into how he is feeling (except for a "friend" who he is friends with, however, I think this girl has feelings for him). I sometimes get flirty vibes from him, like he was very touchy at the dance (but this may have been because he just wanted to hookup and we were both under the influence), but I never see him in person to figure things out further. How should I handle this situation?
I'm confused about a guy and I don't know how to handle the situation.
@lifeisgood7705 Welcome to a2a.
The fact that he turned to another girl when you declined to attend the after party says to me that he was interested in a girl and not necessarily you girl.
I'd just lay low and see if anything develops.