heyyy, im having a little trouble in school talking to people:( i mean im alright but i think that im boring:( what conversations should i start up ? like how should i just start speaking to someone. What questions should i dont think im a boring person to talk to. I just dont think many people are interested. I just need some light on this cause its a bit ruff. :smile:
Trouble in school!!
Talk about something you like with other people that like the same thing.
the best thing you can do that will make others think you are cool/interesting is to ask about THEM. people love to talk about themselves. there are hundreds of topics you can ask about....music, movies, sports, hobbies, books, etc.
ask them what they like, what they've done, etc. and LISTEN to their answers so you can bring it up in a subsequent conversation.
i can almost guarantee this will work. funny thing is that using this method makes people think you are interesting, even though they've only talked about themselves. the hard part is not interjecting and going off on your own tangent. just ask questions, listen and comment from time to time.
Ah, great idea maggie, when i start conversations i usually ask about something that recently happened, or how there day was, and then they go off talking for like 5 minutes about themselves, but hey, atleast you'll have a conversation