My situation is as follows:I am in love with someone. Not just anyone. He just happens to be one of my closest friend's older brother. (I know, odd situation to be in.) According to him, he really likes me alot too. For months we've been debating whether or not we should do something about our feelings for each other or withdraw from that because of his sister/my good friend. I'm completely lost and we're both annoyed as hell with the situation and want it to end already.What should we do? I've talked to my friend and it seems that she'd be uncomfortable with us getting together. Does that mean we should ignore our feelings completely?
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Very Odd Situation
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Out of respect for your brother, I wouldn't do if I were you!!
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Guys come and go, Best Friends are usually forever
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I agree with websexinfo, but if you truly have feelings for him then you shouldnt just stand there and let your feeling build up, i'd express my feelings
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I was in a VERY similiar occasion on numerous occassions back in high school. My lil sister is 2 years younger than me, so when I was a junior her class was freshman, senior/sophmore, etc. She had a lot of goodlookin friends & I was always popular in school. I hooked up with a lot of her friends. Normally she either didnt know or didnt care. There were only a few that she got really pissed about & they lost their friendship over.I cant understand why she would get mad, but she might. You got a few choices:01) talk to her & try to make her understand about you & her brother so nothing will be said when you & him hook up02) stay secret about everything & hope no one finds out03) do it anyway openly & risk the friendship
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Thanks for the advice all. I'm putting it all into consideration. According to him he's at the point where he's "unable to hold back any longer". I guess we'll see where this goes.
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fuck wut other ppl say if u like him n he likes u go 4 it!