Does this dream mean I’m gay?

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So I have this friend, we are both 14. One day we both went for a piss and I looked over his stale by mistake and so his cock. This triggered me to feel sexual urges for him, I even messaged him asking if I could suck his cock but had to lie later saying it was to get his attention. But that’s all in the past.

So last night I had a dream that I got my dick out and started jerking off in a classroom while sat next to him (the dreams hard to remember but I’ll try out it into context) it wasn’t long too he started to jerk off and then he took his glasses of and I shot seman on each lens 3 times then he put them back on.

This dream is strange and it felt so real that when I saw him today I felt like he knew and I wanted to do it for real so bad.

I want to know if this makes me gay

Welcome, Casio.

But does jerking off to Carrie Fisher mean you are straight? You evidently have some interests both ways, but this is common and normal, especially at your age, when sexual interests may be more fluid and exploratory.

I don't think it is possible to predict whether in a few years' time you will consider yourself straight or bisexual. Because of the Carrie Fisher thing, I doubt you will consider yourself exclusively gay.

So your saying I’m a bi?

@Casio I think everyone may be bi, at the base of their brain--but higher up in the brain, some things are suppressed, more or less effectively. In prisons, and formerly in ships at sea when all sailors were male, normally straight guys become temporarily gay.

But, as I said, I don't think it is possible to tell at this point whether in a few years' time you will consider yourself bi, or straight.

Thanks Ineligible, do think I should tell him about the dream?

@Casio I think that would mean he would then see you as someone who wants sex with him. He may be repulsed, and the friendship would be over. (This seems likely, if you had to lie to him last time.)

Good point, not to mention I bet he’d tell a whole lot of people

@Casio That's a good point too

I guess it will have to stay in my dreams

Message me privately!!! I'm 14 aswel probably i could help you out;)