Well, yes I'm a virgin and I was just wondering about something.When you masturbate and have an orgasm, does it feel the same as it does when having sex or is sex alot better with a better feeling that lasts longer? Do you understand what I'm trying to say? Haha...
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Does it feel the same?
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depends, try it and find out.
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I'm not knocking masturbation, which kept my raging hormones busy when I was a teen and which remains an occasional treat now that I'm middle-aged. I've urged both my teen-age sons to do it, and my wife has given our teen-age daughter similar advice.
But good sex with someone you love is way, way better. The moment of orgasm is mechanically the same: your penis starts contracting and you ejaculate six or seven spurts of semen. But the ride there with someone you love is longer and more pleasurable, which makes the orgasm *feel* way, way more intense. My wife and I know how to please each other, partly because we've watched one another masturbate. We stretch out the foreplay, and when we finally connect, we don't just rush to the finish line--we take our time, each enjoying the other's rising excitement, till we're ready to explode together. The orgasms are the most powerful I've ever had in my life.
Masturbation is a great pleasure, but a simple one. Lovemaking is richer, more complex, more exciting. Winning a pot in penny-ante poker is fun. Hitting the Lotto is fun, too, but the pay-off is a whole lot bigger. -
well, i don't know, depends i guess if it's a good lay or not, wait that didn't come out right. i think as u have sex more, the better it feels(from grl's point of view) and i masterbate ALOT, so i think masterbation feels slightly better than sex, thats also b.c. i know wat pleases me, u see wat i'm sayin?
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I have a female friend of mine who says that having an orgasm with a guy slowly moving in and out when she does is the most intense orgasm she can have. She says that it is something about having something in there to "squeeze" with those contractions...may not be the same for all gals...btw, she usually has to rub or vibe her clit at the same time to get the orgasm. She also says that it is best if she stops just short of coming 3 or 4 times before she lets go...
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Wow! I'm amazed that her guy friend can last long enough for her to bring herself close to three or four orgasms. She sure is lucky. To answer the question, an orgasm brought about by masturbation is great. But an orgasm brought about by sexual intercourse is fantastic! But, until you're ready for intercourse, I suggest you remain a virgin and continue enjoying your fingers. You have plenty enough time to discover sex.
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i find havin sex is much better
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I agree. I use masturbation only for the times when having sex is "not convenient" for whatever reason.