My boyfriend claims that cos i turn him on so much its like being 15 again, when we have sex he can only last 3 or 4 thrusts before he cums, what can i do to help him, its not something that bothers me majorly but its becoming a thing for him that he can't last longer.
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Premature ejaculation
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maybe get him to wear a really thick condom. It might help with the sensitivity
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im exactly the same and i feel awful about it! like im lame and pathetic! but most of the time i can stay hard and then cum after about 30 mins - has he tried that - keep going for it after he cums . . .then see if he can again - i want to know if its just me thats strange!?
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Theres sex sites that describe techniques that claim to help with that. Techniques, medication, and all other things can be talked about with sex counselor's. They should know lots of ways to help. The problem is getting your man to agree to go.
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Chances are you do make him so horny that when he does get inside of you he can’t hold back. He needs to work that awesome feeling to almost the point of no return and stop! Let it subside and then do it again then stop! Then do it again. Continue until he can’t take it anymore and then take it home. They also have a new drug coming out called dapoxetine that will help men with premature experiences. It modulates serotonin levels in the brain and nervous system in a manner similar to that of antidepressants like Prozac, which has been used in the past to help with this problem. Personally, I used to jack off a few hours before having sex so I wouldn’t be so keyed up, eager and ready to pop a nut so quickly. Hope this helps…
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The probalem with the stop and go method durring sex is that the women will likely lose orgasm!
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I used to have that problem a little bit. Not 3-4 thrusts bad but i just wasn't lasting as long as i wanted when I was really turned on.2 things1) Get off before you have sex. masturbate or have her give you head, then work on her for a while until you're ready to go, and you'll last longer2) stop & go. If you do it right you can last for hours.
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would that drug you were talking abuot, work for getting boners less often for no reason, like if im talking to a girl about nothing sexual that i think is hot i wouldnt get one? i dont get them jsut from talking, although sometimes i do
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I would agree with having an orgasm about 1/2 hour to an hour before sex, as long as you can get erect again.