Do u cum faster when a chick is giving u a HJ since only her thumb is rubbing on ur sensitive front part of ur dick. When u jerk off normally theres 4 fingers stroking that front part. Just curios.
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Qucik question. someone who has had handjob please
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LOL, I can come a lot quicker & it feels better if I do it; however, I'd much rather SHE do it .
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Well personally i use more than my thumb when giving a hand job.My husband seems to like them quite well.
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Sometimes guys take longer and for some it is really difficult to ejaculate if someone else is doing the job. I'd say that you're getting off quicker because of the enjoyment and excitement of having her do it!
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I much prefer a hand job, if it's a woman (for example, my wife) who knows how to do it. Masturbating a man is not a born talent for women, it's an acquired art, and it takes some learning (as it does for men masturbating women or doing foreplay with them). Back when we were dating, my wife and I were masturbating each other to climax before we graduated to intercourse. We both were getting off on sheer young lust, but there was always a little something missing for both of us. My wife-to-be was first to get it, and one night in a car, she asked me suddenly if she could watch me masturbate so she could learn what I like. I said OK, but only if you'll do the same for me. We each learned a ton that night, including what a turn-on it could be to watch and be watched. We still needed a lot of practice and a lot of prompting as we moved from mutual masturbation to foreplay, but we both got pretty good at the game. After nearly 20 years together, my wife masturbates me as well as I do myself--she knows all my G-spots from the frenulum to the prostate, and there's something way sexier about having my penis in someone else's loving hand. I think I've learned a lot too and have helped my wife to some monster multiple orgasms. Mutual masturbation has become a regular part of our sex life, along with intercourse and 69--and sometimes all three in the same session. It's technique you're missing in your lady's hand jobs. The solution is telling (or better yet showing) her what you need and letting her practice till she gets it right. And don't forget her needs--pleasuring you may be a kick for her but she'll have a lot more fun if she gets pleasured back.
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I can't cum if someone else is trying to give me a handjob. But, I have no trouble orgasming if I do it myself. I guess its much harder for the other person to be able to have just the right pressure and rub the right spots. Whever my wife has given me a handjob, I have enjoyed it, but have always had to finish myself. In fact, the very first time we had sex was when she was trying to give me a handjob and a blowjob. Neither did the trick, so we "graduated" to her vagina. That worked quite nicely