Im A LOT more experianced than my boyfriend, He isnt a virgin but has only done it twice before me. Ive done it about 6 or 7 times, and have done quite a few more things than him, been eat out, deep throated, anal ect. He has told me he does want to have sex, but when the time comes, he just does follow through. he says, it seems like i told really want to continue like his does, but i think hes just cause hes afraid. How do I help this situation at all?!?
I want to go further, But im the girl!
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well if he is afraid (like you say) then you have to try to address this.
what is it that he's afraid of?
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You need to just take control. I'm guessing he's too shy & self conscious that he's going to be lousy at fucking and that's what's causing him to not do it.
First time I had sex was with a girl who was older and much more experienced. She started by giving me head and then when I was nice and hard she got on top of me and lowered herself down onto my cock and rode me.
I'd suggest that if the girl knows what she's doing it should be her on top. That way she's in complete control. trust me, he won't back out of it if you suck him hard and then get on top of him.
The only girl I've had sex with was pretty aggresive, and I gotta say I have no problems with that. The first time we had sex, we were kissing and all I could think was I was way too nervous to try to initiate sex, so luckily she felt very comfortable and took control, cuz she wanted it just as bad. She wasn't being dominant or anything, just that she got everything started and even gave me pointers (I was a virgin, what can you expect?). So, if the guy is shy or nervous, just go for it, I'm guessing he'll be extremely happy
Okay, first husband was a virgin. He wouldn't even kiss me. We went to a lake, it was dusk. I asked him to kiss me he said no. I took his arm, and started licking at his wrist. By the time I got to his mouth he was willing to kiss me.
As for the sex, he was watching TV, I took a shower. Shaved a nice pattern in my hair and dyed it. Came out in a towel and asked if he wanted to see it. He shrugged. I dropped the towel. Went over and sat on him. Started kissing him and rubbing myself off on his hand. After a few mins he was ready.
I can be a little assertive.
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Yep i agree you should take control the first time i had sex it was my girlfriend who started i just got a hardon and followed