How would it be more fun if you went fast, caused pain and possibly caused her to bleed? If you work your way up to it by turning her on and getting natural lubrication going, it'll be easier to ease your way and not be forceful. It can be pleasurable even for her first time by someone who takes the time and effort to make it as good as possible for her.
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Is She Still A Virgin
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that what i was thinking, i KNEW i was right, lol, thanx
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No problem.
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I wouldn't count rape as losing your virginity. I also don't think having sex when you're drop-dead-drunk would take away your virginity either. I think you have to give it up. You have to be fully in charge of the situation for you to lose it. That's my thinkin's many would idsagree though. If she still thinks she has it, then she does.
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Whether she is technically a virgin or not, you love each other and want to please each other and that's all that should matter.
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i agree with zetazin, i still see her as a virgin, even if she wasnt i would love her just as much
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tecnically she's not, but why would you care anyway of it was out of her control.
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My guess would be because they want to share a special moment when they give their virginities away to the person they care about. Sort of like a "trading" of virginity.
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Slow and easy, not fast and agressive and you'll both enjoy it more. Here's another tip bud....I suspect she is going to be super nervous because of the rape. It may take some time for her to loosen up a bit...if she's already concerned about hurting, then chances are she'll be tense and worried. Its up to you to be patient and work slowly. I'd say that the chances are pretty good that things won't work out just right the first time or two...just keep working together as a couple and things will be fine but don't get frustrated if you can't do it successfully or if you have erection problems. You'll both be pretty nervous! Hang in there!
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thanx but the problem is, we live in diff states, she is coming to visit for x-mas, maybe for a week, and i dont think we will be doin it during the first cuple of days, so time is limited, it will suck if it dont work out the first time and we have to leave off like that
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Sex is a bonus to every relationship, so if it doesn't happen oh well