Hey all, I've been getting more serious with my girlfriend and I think I want to suprise her the next time we get together by either fingering or eating her out. Now I'm pretty sure I know the basics to both but what I need from the ladies here is some tips, what really gets ya going ya know? Any technique work especially well?
Finger/Eat Out advice
try going over to clitical.com and and the-clitoris.com and looking around there. they have good tips. read the parts about masturbation too, so you can get an idea of what girls do to themselves.
basically, get her aroused first with lots of kissing and touching other parts of her body. not just her breasts. her neck, her sides, belly, thighs. you want to get her juices flowing before you get down there.
then be gentle unless she asks otherwise. pay attention to her clit but make sure she's very aroused first through fingering or licking her labia and vagina. when you're ready to move on to her clit, make sure your finger is wet.
some girls can't take direct stimulation on their clit, it actually hurts, so you have to use indirect. use the skin above and around it (the hood) to stimulate.
look at pictures and read all you can. hopefully she is not too shy to tell you what feels good or if you're doing something that does not feel good.
Well, first of all I'd take it nice and slow. Be kissing her and then work your way down her chest (don't forget to give the nipples some attention) down her stomach (maybe a little flicker or two on the naval) then down around the vagina but do a little tease and go to her thigh. Heheh. (drives em' crazy with anticipation).
Once you get in there give her an australian kiss. It's much like the french kiss except down under (get it! get it! snort snort). Mainly cncentrate on the clit and do a combination of tongue flicking and kissing. Don't forget to have your tongue visit the labia sisters and Ms. V every once in a while.
Keep eating her out and meanwhile move to fingering her at the same time. Start off with one finger, preferably the middle finger. Palm facing up, move your finger in and out and do a "come here" motion when it's in all the way. This will put friction on her G-spot. Not too long after insert your pointer finger along with your middle finger with your palm face down. As your fingers enter deeper you want to turn your palm face up and do the come here motion once again. As your fingers exit (not all the way) return your palm face down. if you haven't noticed the turning of the palm is really a twisting action with your fingers The next step is repeat repeat repeat and after Ms. O arrives you may want to rinse.
Go get her champ... Or as Larry the cable guy says "Git-r-done"