How long does it take for everyone here to masturbate? Im a 3-5 minute masturbater.. Does this mean im going to be a 3-5 minute premature ejaculator? (Right now, I havent had sex yet. Was gonna a few times but got so excited I went before I even got in :frowning: ) Or is there a relationship here?
How Long Does it Take?
Hey bud, each of us is very different and it all depends on alot. How excited you are, how quick you really want to be and such. And no, intercourse and masturbation are different so don't try to match the two..often, intercourse is quicker....depends alot on how much control we have. There are some things you can do to work on that though.
It takes me a half-hour at least and longer if I have the time. I'm assuming you're a young fellow, and when we're young, it's hard for us to hold back even if we try, and mostly we don't try--it's like a race to see how fast we can get to the payoff when the semen starts flying.
I describe in a post elsewhere on this site--it's in a thread called "Caught Masturbating Stories"--how I once watched my dad masturbating in the next bed while I was pretending to be asleep. (I was 13 at the time.) He kept going for more than a half hour before he climaxed, and when he went off to the bathroom to clean up, I was so overheated that I jacked into my underpants in a couple of strokes. But I had learned a precious lesson, which was slow down--the longer you take getting to orgasm, the more intense it will be. And you'll also be in training to be a great lovemaker--I've never been with a woman yet, including my wife of 20 years, who didn't prefer taking it slow.
If you haven't yet, check out a site called Jackinworld--it's got some good how-to stuff on prolonging the experience with various stop-and-start techniques. I've recommended it to my own two teen-age boys, and they tell me they've learned a lot from it.