Ok, I've heard that when giving a BJ, if you deep throat when he comes, you wont taste the cum, is there any advice on how to deep throat without gagging? I've tried, but I gag and it makes it unpleasant for me. Also, when I give my boyfriend a BJ, I focuse on the head a lot, and this makes him squirm all around. He says when I do that if he doesnt hold his penis, it feels weird. Why is this? Also, how much and how long should I suck on the tip? How long is too long? And another question ( sorry, last one) after he cums, should I just not touch him? Or should I jack him off? What should I do once he comes?
the reason he squirms is the head is the most sensitive part.
it depends on how long you do everything. you just gotta practice & learn what exactly your boyfriend wants. I personally like the girl to "tease" at times while she's doing it. Like pullin it out & lickin on my balls or hittin it on her tongue or just barely lickin the tip. Then go right back to doin what she's doin. Every guy is different though, so it would help if you just talk to him. I know I dont have a problem tellin the girl what I like. All you gotta do is show em one time & then after that it's all gravy .
About after he cums - suck him off until he's completely through cumming. Then after that suck it and/or jack him off only a lil while after. For some reason mine gets extremely sensitive after I cum & too much stimulation kinda "tickles" and makes me wanna pull away...
When he comes, Every guy I know would prefer the girl to swallow. If you swallow, I'm sure he'll enjoy it.
Hope that helped.
Thanks guys, you both helped lots!
you should be holding him/stroking him and using your mouth at the same time. i take about 3 or so inches in my mouth and use my hand on the rest. that way he gets the whole thing feeling good and i don't have to deep throat. tried that once and it just ain't happenin'. he, along with previous partners, never complained about my technique. :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye: