Here's the 411 (lol just wanted to say that), anyways we have been married for 12 years. We have 2 children, 12 and 11, she does not work outside the home, I work 45 hours a week. I cannot seem to get her to have sex with me. I believe she still loves me because she is still here, and every morning when I get out of bed she will roll over to my side of the bed. I always compliment her on how hot she looks, but nothing. Any help?
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Help with wife
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does she do all the house work.. dishes.. make dinner... laundry.. clean the house and such? thats very tiring.. im glad my mom is always tired so i dont have to hear it!
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I work all day, then come home and 80% of the time I cook dinner, then at night I will do the dishes (97% of the time), then after I take the kids for a bike ride or go swimming and it is dark out, I do the laundry (85% of the time).I used to work 8-5 then go to another job and work 5:30-2 am, come home and then on the weekends do the cleaning..She has it so easy it is incredible how she can stand it. During schoolHer routine is wake up lay on couch until kids are ready for school, take them to school and 90% of the time come home and sit and watch tv.During summer breakWake up around 9-10 am sit and watch tv.
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then maybe you two need counciling.. or something... have a good talk with her
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If you are doing most of the work in and out of the house and she is not contributing much of anything... well something is very wrong there. Get her off her ass and make her find a job if she's not going to do anything in the house.
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It must be lonely for her sitting in the house alone all day, try calling from work just to talk - I'm sure she'd enjoy the company.
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maybe the fact that u ask 18 year olds for their pix bothers her...
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where did he ask that?
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His signature.
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Well that is a bit odd, but in his defense.. he did say OVER 18... meaning legal age. Please don't twist words around.
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I thought 18 was legal. But in all curiosity - why does he want them?
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how did i twist his words around? would you like ur spouse saying it's ok to send him/her naked pics of you, legal age or not...?
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he didn't say naked
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implied. what other kinds of pics would he be looking for when he specifically asks for 18...and i know that he wouldn't want 15 year old, i understand that..but why not 17?
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let it go, it's just a sig
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gone.
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lol sorry bub cant help ya with this, im only a child, about to turn 13
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Then don't reply?
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Maybe compliments are the only piece to her puzzle...maybe after hearing them over and over, she feels that they sound programmed. try romance...make reservations at a fairly decent restauraunt. then just take it from there, like you would've done on a first date or something of that manner.
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Craig:Does she seem depressed? Doing nothing may seem like a really great thing to us working people, but waking up late and watching TV all day can make you feel like crap (or indicate that you already feel like crap). You should talk to her about getting a job. It also might curb what seems to be growing resentment on your part. Good luck.