there are quite a few people here on these boards who's had/having relationship when they're like 13-14, and had sex 15-17 whatever, but my parents are pretty strict and said im not allowed to even go out on a date till im at least 18. I'm ok with that I guess (im not well known so its gonna be a while before i settle down with a girl) but when i think about it, are my parents a little TOO strict? (im 15 and i have a bedtime at 10:30pm on school nights, and 11:00pm on non-school nights)
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Do you think that this is just a tad extreme?
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your bed times seem fineseems a lil strict about the relationships. have you tried talking to them bout it? that would be quite hard though...
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That's not your decision though cool! Maybe there is a reason for it!
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they said that girls will interfere with my schoolwork (though as soon as i come home, i start playing games/going online wasting time anyways) and every time they see teens going out to the mall or like holding hands, my mom gets real pissed about it and says that they are real stupid)
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i think your weeknight bedtime is reasonable, generous even. the weekend bedtime seems pretty early! and the no dating until you're 18 does seem a bit extreme. on the other hand, your parents really do have your best interests at heart, and as sucky as it is, doing well in school and getting into a good college has WAY better long term benefits than being able to date at 15.btw, i am 46 yrs old, female. i wasn't allowed to go out at all on school nights. my curfew was midnight on weekends, and i was allowed to date at 16. i dated a REAL loser when i was 16, and although i know it would have been futile for my parents to forbid me to see him, i do wish my mom would have pointed out how shitty he treated me and that i didn't have to put up with that.
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I wasn't allowed to date until I turned 18. My parents wanted me to concentrate on my school work. I had a bedtime of 11:00 and I seem to be well adjusted. I'm 40 with a wife and 3 kids. Married for 15 years. Hang in there, it'll be okay and you'll have enough time to experience everything you think you're missing out on.
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not to be offensive but your parents suck dude, im 13, have no bedtime and go on dates all the time
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There are reason for everything don't just assume the obvious.
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Are you 12 or 13?
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Im 13 my bedtime is 1030 school nights and whenever on weekends, i have had sooo many gfs and my parents are cool about it..
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joe im actually 12 but i just say 13 cause i turn 13 tomarro
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In reply to: joe im actually 12 but i just say 13 cause i turn 13 tomarro Haha we found Lil Cutie a match!!!!jk
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whos lilcutie????
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A little 12 year old girl who wants to see guys jack off and has this big long thread about "how do i make guys horny" it's in the Masturbation forum I think.
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oo i heard about her somewhere and i dont really think thats appropriate
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Click
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yes i saw that earlier