Does anyone get mad when someone dies?

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i just wanted to hear your thoughts and ideas about why people might or do get mad when someone dies. now, we're not talking about death by murder, we're talking about death by accident, or old age.

I think its just part the emotional process. Sad, angry, happy etc. If there mad about it from the start and continue to be mad, it sounds like something about money, but maybe thats the only way some people can express themselves.

uh huh...i see what you mean.

There's no reason to be mad.

i know, i was just reading a post about a guy who said he was religious till his grandfather died...that made me think, that maybe the guy wasn't expecting it to happen..like he had some animosity (sp) that made him mad and turn agains this faith.

i was fairly religious until my grandma died. She was the most religious person I had ever met and she had been that way all her life. Yet she went through so much pain in her life. Surgey after surgey, cancer treatment after cancer treatment, etc etc. More than any old lady should have to. When she died it pissed me off. I havent been back to church since.

Also, it's one thing to accept something intellectually, but when it actually happens and you see how bad it is in full force, your feelings take over.

Many get mad and lose their faith because God did not intervene with pain, suffering, or death.

Well tbh, I was religious till my (only) friend died, about 5 years ago in front of my eyes. I don't know if you could say I was mad, maybe I was, I don't remember. But that's when I stopped believing in God.

Why does everyone blame god?

I didn't blame God. It was just that one event of many that made me realize that there is no God.

This is how i felt too. Seeing my mother suffer and go through soo much pain, and seeing my dad suffer aswell really made me question God and his "Plan".I wasnt super religious or anything before, but i did believe in god.And since my parents passing, i have an unexpected anger towards god.I understand people will get sick and die. But its the unimaginable suffering that angers me.Also i am very upset and extremly angry at my parents doctors and the care they recieved.Unbelievable!

yes i got very mad when my sister died. still mad actually. she was such a good person and so full of life. she was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer and died 2 months later, suffering horribly the whole time.

i think about all the truly terrible people in this world..murderers, drug dealers, child molesters....they get to live and someone good dies. that really, really pisses me off.

Always an interesting subject to bring up, and always one I find hard when having to break it to family members that there is nothing that can be done to bring back their loved one. The main 5 stages of grief are: denial, bargaining, anger, despair and acceptance. here for more details The worst has got to be when they will not leave the body alone... trying to hold hands and hugging when you’re trying to work on them... lol although I have had some funny looks when I've asked them to put the kettle on!