Hey all this was about acouple of weeks ago and its been kind of on my mind. Surprises me that I didnt think of this place! Well I was at this guys house one night and well one thing led to another and I was giving him head. This was my first time giving it as well and It really wasnt that bad. For alittle I thought I was going to gag so he let me take a break. But then at one time I could go for so long and he came off early..is this a good thing? I noticed he was heavily breathing so I guess he was getting aroused by all of this..Im kind of embarassesed to ask him what he thinks if I did good or not..and im also alittle embarassed that I gagged I think twice. Well what do you think? Thanks
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Did I give a good blow job?
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He came, he liked it, it was good.
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um ok thanks for that short but sweet answer
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I basically agree with Websexinfo. As a guy, I'd be upset by making a woman gag once, let alone twice, and might have pulled out even if it meant getting myself off. But that's a guy in his mid-40s talking. Twenty or twenty-five years ago, I have no doubt I would have kept going, and if I came in my lady's mouth, you betcha I would have been happy.There is a way to minimize the risk of gagging--wrap your hand around the guy's penis so that you're not taking more of it in your mouth than you comfortably can. As you move your head, move your hand along with it--the effect is like giving oral sex and a hand job at the same time, which, from the point of view of the penis, is a hell of a lot of fun and a ticket to a very big orgasm.Most guys like to come in your mouth and hope you'll swallow it. Don't do either if it's repellant to you--just be sure to let the guy know the ground rules in advance.
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ha! clymaxx, that's just how i do it "from the point of view of the penis"LOL!
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I don't pretend to be an expert, Maggie--certainly not in what's best for women--but if you're using your hand for your protection and your guy's pleasure, I think you're doing it right. There's a mystique now about "deep-throating," which I think is totally overrated by guys and therefore by women who think that's what it takes to please us. I get much more pleasure out of a shallower entry, where lips, tongue and suction can do their magical work. But the best oral I've ever had has been mutual, aka, 69. A lot of guys--I assume young guys--complain on these sites that mutual oral sex doesn't let them concentrate totally on their own pleasure. That's the objective of masturbation, not love or even lust. Excuse me, and maybe again it's because I'm a middle-aged dude, I thought shared pleasure was the whole point of sex--certainly in a loving relationship. Sixty-nine is free, wet, wild and (most important to me) mutual, most profound when you climax at the same time. When I'm in the mood and my wife isn't, I'd sooner she helped me masturbate than give me a BJ without letting me reciprocate.
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thanks for the reply clymax! this gave me a good answer "wrap your hand around the guy's penis so that you're not taking more of it in your mouth than you comfortably can. As you move your head, move your hand along with it"yup thats what I exactly did when I said I could last a long time..and I did swallow as well.
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Then the answer to your question is yes, you gave a very good blow job, amazingly so for a first-timer. It's an art a lot of women take a long time learning, and some never get it. (A lot of guys have a lot of tooth marks to prove it.) You'll do fine. But let your guy know that you'd like him to return the favor. If he does as well by you as you've done by him--well, let's say you'll both be happy.