Alright.. last night i went to my cousins party.. and i got really really drunk.. .. and there was this guy there.. Ill call him Rob.. he had just broken up with his girlfriend.. and he goes to my cousin "hey do you think your cousin would have sex with me?" and i thought he was joking.. so im like "ummm sure whatever!" and i left and went to call my friend on the phone.. well this guys girlfriend was just leaving.. and she was crying and such.. and her and i were starting to become friends.. so he comes out and were talking.. and my cousin and his friend left to get someone at a local tim hortons.. and me and al were talking.. and this guy rob goes.. " so do you wanna do it" well things go on and 10 minutes later were going it on my cousins trampoline.. then later on that night we do it again.. and again and again.. well this morning i talked to his girlfriend and she is so upset and i feel like ass... and she says she doesnt hate me but i know she does.. i dont know what to do.. because her and i are so much closer than him and i.. and i knew i would never have done it excdpt for the fact that i was sooo drunk.. i just dont know what to do...
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I Fucked up Bad
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didn't you sleep with another guy the other weekend? i'm not trying to judge, but you're starting to sound "slutish" (i'm not saying you're a slut, but your actions lean towards that way), i'm sorry but drinking is no excuse, if you can't control yourself when it comes to alcohol then you shouldn't be drinking in the first place, you did it and there's really nothing that can be done to fix it, it's one of those things that really can't be fixed, sorry to sound harsh, but i really think you need to be taking a close look at your actions
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one question you need to ask yourself, in a longrun who would mean more to you??
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I agree with amanda, why didn't you feel bad after the first couple of times? Alcohol? yeah yeah yeah...
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Again I'm not trying to bad mouth you, but I just really think you need to step back and look at your actions. If I remember correctly you lost your virginity only a short time ago and now it seems like you're just giving it up. Make your decisions wisely.
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Who's fucking up their life now?
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k i understand all of you.. but i know i did something wrong and i talked to his girlfriend today.. and things are tough.. this only happened last night and so many things are going through my head i dont know what to thinkAmanda: i did lose my virginity about a year and a half ago almost.. i understand where youre coming from.. and i totally agree... i made a horrible decisionI was really unsure as to if i should or should not post here because i knew id be getting critisism.. and i did it because everyone else told me that everything is gonna be ok and i know thats BS... i just needed advice
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I rarely see people handle criticism so well. That's impressive. As far as advice goes, there's not much else you can do right now beyond reflecting on past errors and groveling to the people that you've hurt. I don't think you've messed your life up or anything quite so drastic. You screwed up, and now you need to move on . I think the valuable lesson here is that drunk/stupid sex almost always makes you feel like an asshole. Alcohol and sexuality are a toxic brew; it's best to avoid the combination.
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I've been conserned about PK4 since she gave it up. Hope she pulls herself togother before she's pk4/pg or worse.
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im concerned about myself too.. i need to stop just having fun
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i thought you lost it a few months ago
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PR, you seem like a good person for recognizing faults. I'm not here to judge you and I won't. I know you'll do fine.
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In reply to:i need to stop just having funPlease do. And stop trying to make people feel sorry for you.
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how about you stop being a dick.. im not trying to make people feel sorry for me..I fucked up.. i know i did.. at least i can admit my faults
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nah i lost it a whiles back
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Saying things like "i guess ill just stop having fun (for the rest of my entire life and just be miserable)" are asking for pitty. The things in parantheses are finishing the sentence. Trust me, I know about that. I used to do it without knowing it and now I've tried stoping to do it.
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i know im gonna have sex again.. probably soon too.. but i know im not gonna put myself in a situation for me.. now why dont you just stop trying to make me look like a little bitch and screw off
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Have you considered not drinking anymore? I know it's hard to avoid but I guess you can give it a thought. Or you could try to limit yourself on how much you drink, although once you get buzzed you might think, hey why not one more.
As for the friendship between you and this girl, I'm very surprised she didn't show you she was more upset than what she did show. There's a possibilty you two can still really become friends, but you're going to have to tell her you know you messed up and you have no excuse. Truthfully, only time will heal such a wound.
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yea like web said try to limit how much you drink, and what you drink as well
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I honestly havent drank in a long time.. before sauble beach 2 weekends ago.. i hadnt drank for over a year.. because i know how stupid it is