My girlfriend stops me when she's about to climax?

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my girlfriend and i have been messing around for about 4 month's now, and when i am fingering her she always pulls my hand up. she has told me that she pulls my hand out right when she is about to climax because she feels like she has to pee. is this normal, and what is it? am i doing something wrong? is there a way to give her an orgasm without her feeling like she has to pee? i have fingered her countless times, but everytime she has the same problem. please help

Most likely if you continue, she would have a G-spot orgasm. Sometimes some gals will squirt or ejaculate a clear liquid (which is not urine). Have her urinate before "messing around" and have a towel handy so that when that moment comes she can let go.

i do that i feel really weird and have to get him to stop so you reckon if i carry on i would cum?

Probably. You won't know until you try.

i guess its just such a strange feeling like kinda pain but its not painful its weird thanks thought i might carry on with it to see whats gonna happen ill keep you posted on it haha

she has actually left to go to the bathroom, and when she comes back (bladder completely empty) and i am fingering her, the same thing happens. the way i finger her is by putting 2 fingers inside then curling them while sliding in and out a little bit. i don't know if that helps with the g-spot question, but she definatley goes crazy when i do that.

Then tell her to let loose and go with it. If she went to the bathroom and her bladder is empty, there is nothing to pee. So.. there.

oh by the way, i have told her that it isn't urine and that she should just let it go. she doesn't seem to trust me though... :frowning: another thing, yesterday she said that i gave her an orgasm, but there was no egaculation. also i have heard that when girls climax their pussies tighten up. this didn't happen, so i don't know if she actually had an orgasm or if she was just saying that. if anyone could help on that too i would appreciate it :wink:

That's why I mentioned the towel.

i have had a towel handy and she still doesn't want to finish... and as i said, she claims that she has had an orgasm, and there was no mess, so i don't know why she still pulled my hand up a few times later yesterday night.

Well you'll have to ask her then.

Wasn't that already mentioned?

I would just tell her, "baby, let me keep going even if you feel like you need to pee. I promise it will feel real good."

Ahhh.. Then speak and ye shall be heard.

well i did it i never told him to stop and oh boy oh boy i really did cum haha

have her take a piss before you guys fool around...tell her that "your gonna have a gspot orgasm...so be happy" make sure you got some towels around or something, cuz it sucks when they are squirters...

good for you, i've never had a g-spot one. and you can orgasm w/out the tensing. those are my usual ones when involving someone else.